Showing posts with label My POV. Show all posts
Showing posts with label My POV. Show all posts

Sunday, September 13, 2015

PJ HALF MARATHON 2015 (21KM Finisher)

PJ Half Marathon 2014 was my 1st HM and I participate this event once again this year because I want to improve last year finishing time. PJ Half Marathon 2015 was held on 7th September at Laman MBPJ, Petaling Jaya. It was my 5th HM (*wink2). 

We was late because some road being closed due to the event that caused us to take a quite a long detour to reach the event venue. Mister dropped me by the roadside nearby the starting point and I had to rush to find toilet because 21KM will be gun off in 20min.  I was just entering the toilet when they gun off 21KM runners at 5am and managed to sprint to the starting point 2-3 minutes later and joined the last crowd. 

The route was totally different and more challenging than last year. I enjoyed the run but those impatience cars, motorcycles and buses that keep honking at us at some congest point really a killjoy. I feel so thankful towards volunteers and police traffic who controlling the traffic for us because if they weren't there, (palis-palis) memang yang tidak penyabar langgar suda tu runners semua.

I was running with slow pace at average 12min per miles and made it to the finish line after 154min; better time than my finish time during PJ Half Marathon 2014. Am I happy? Of course! For an amateur runner like me who always lack of training, finishing a HM below 3 hours, I considered myself doing a good job(^^)V...Ba, jangan kamu muntah, ayat kasi sedap hati seja ba tu, ngehehe!

Okay, regarding the event itself; I think overall it was better than last year. The route is challenging and enjoyable (minus the barking dog when passing along the residential area and those impatience cars/buses/motorcycles), punctual and suitable starting point (at least for me), good traffic control and nice running t-shirt & finisher t-shirt for 21KM.

However there were also several flaw that the organizer should take note and overcome if they want to convince runners to join this event again next year. Firstly, they should increase the number of volunteer/support team at the water stations. Pity us because some of us especially those who run with large crowd, have to serve our own water that add 2-3min to our time. 

Secondly, they should be more considerate about providing wider running line for hundreds runner for I saw some runners almost got hit by car/motorcycle for accidentally ousted from the narrow line by other runners. 

They also should provided e-cert with ranking and finish time for 21KM and 10KM instead of paper cert that we have to fill up the details by ourselves and they should give finisher medal and light breakfast to all category since the fee was quite expensive. Blank paper certificate is so out-dated! Running event nowadays is getting expensive year by year (*sighed).

The certificate
Beside that, the organizer should design attractive medal instead of a simple plain one because this year medal is no difference than last year except for the size. Pardon me if I am rude but the medal is so boring, hehehe! Lastly but not the least, please add up the number of toilet at the starting/finish point because I had to queue up for almost 20min and missed the gun off by 2min, grrrr!

Okay, I am finish with the review of this event and sharing here few pic of me from the event:-
The medal, me at the finish line & me wearing the finisher t-shirt
Screenshot of the result
The only pic of me by freelance photographer, Maui. Can you spot me? :P

Monday, December 29, 2014

MY 1ST 21KM: PJ HALF MARATHON 2014

I did my 1st half marathon 3 weeks ago on 7th December during PJ Half Marathon 2014. I never expect that I could finish it within 3 and half hours since I was still curing my ITBS from the last run. Yes, I honestly feel proud of myself for able to reach the finish line without any proper training and saddled up with ITBS problem. My knees was killing me and stairs became my enemy for few days afterward but it didn't marred the happy feeling for ticking one of my things to do list this year.

Though I was all alone by myself but the run was really enjoyable (minus the knees pain)  because I encountered lots of wonderful and encouraging runners all the way to finish line. I was also fascinated by few runner who able to run while pushing a baby stroller for 21KM and also those who able to run non-stop wearing fancy outfit. Jakunnya saya kan..Hahaha!

Regarding the event itself, I think it was a success except for few flaw that the organizer should take note especially water supply - not enough water for the runner at the last station. Water supply at the last 2 station was limited/not enough when I reached them yet there were like 50 or more runners behind me. Beside that I feel deceived by the organizer because I didn't received any goodies bag as stated in the registration form. I wouldn't mind if the run was organized for charity but it was not for charity so saya rasa tidak berbaloi bayar mahal-mahal..Grrrrr! Well, it's okay then. Next year I will think twice, nope 10th time before joining PJ Half Marathon..Hahaha!
Pre-run pic
Peace from Tunung at 16KM point
Yay! I made it!!
The result...hehehe


This event is my last running event for 2014 and I hope I can join in more running event in year 2015 (*finger crossed). That all for now and till next post ya!


Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Kiss Goodbye To Breast Cancer Charity Walk 2012


After a very long 'break' from blogging, here I am with my 'come back' sharing that you, yes especially YOU (WOMEN) should know and support by simply participating or sharing! 
Before that, tell me, when the last time  you done your breast self examination (BSE)?? Lots of people still not aware the importance of BSE in order to detect the early symptoms of breast cancer, the #1 killer in Malaysia and #1 enemy to all woman around the world and also the importance of practicing healthy lifestyle, proper diet and regular screening to avoid from the risk of getting breast cancer.
In conjunction of the Avon Breast cancer Crusade 20th Anniversary, Avon Malaysia is joining more than 50 other countries in organizing a charity fun-walk called :-



  Kiss Goodbye To Breast Cancer Charity Walk 2012

  DETAIL OF THE EVENTS:-

Date : 23 September 2012, Sunday
Time : 7am
Venue: Front of the Palace of Justice building (Presint 3 Putrajaya)
Fee: RM40 (Buy 5 tickets and get 1 ticket for free)
 Goodie bag:Worth RM80 (includes T-shirt, Bandanna, Bag & Hand fan; Rebate for Avon's products and goodies from Kleenex and Kotex; Lucky Draw; Mystery Gift (Limited Edition) and many more

Registration:-  at http://www.hooha.asia or tickets are available at all Avon Boutique (list of boutique is available at http://www.my.avon.com/PRSuite/beautycenters.page
 
The event aims to create awareness on breast cancer early detection. This charity event targets to create a new record in the Malaysia Book of Records; for The Largest Breast cancer Charity Walk. 


The event is endorsed by Ministry of Women, Family and Community Development, in collaborations with Putrajaya Perbadanan, Lembaga Penduduk & Pembangunan Keluarga Negara (LPPKN), Perbadanan Putrajaya, Kleenex, Kotex, Nestle, Milo, Lai Printing Sdn. Bhd, Amerlink Enterprise Sdn .Bhd, Sunway Pyramid Shopping Mall, Semasa KL Sentral and Marriot Putrajaya. FYI, nett proceed of this event will go to Breast Cancer Welfare Association (BCWA) and Pink Ribbon Wellness Foundation! 

So, what are you waiting for?! Participate and who know you might walk side  by side with our local celebrities like Scha Alyahya, Noor Neelofa, Soo Wincci, Fizo Omar, Linda Jasmine, Que Haiddar, Maria Tunku Sabri, popular radio DJ Jeff, Leslie Chai, Alan Yun, celebrity Master Chef Datuk Fazley, footballer Safee Sali and many more! Beside you can have the chance to be pampered at the Avon experienced booth with free skin consultation, make up tips, foot massage etc. 



  
For more details, call Toll Free at 1800-22-AVON(2866) or visit Avon Malaysia's Facebook Page


 To all my blogger friends, who want get free participation, you can head to Jessying.com and leave your name, url & email at the comment section.

Everyone, let show our support by participating! If you can't participate then show your support by spreading about this charity event and inviting your friend to participate!



                                 LET US WALK TOGETHER FOR A GOOD CAUSE!

 

Friday, May 4, 2012

VIOLENCE vs VIOLENCE = VVAR



Who doesn't know about recent controversial rally? Everybody know about it. Even my 8 years old son know about it. Before you all start making assumption, let me clarify that I am nobody side, that I merely want to write this entry to express my personal thought regarding this issue and importantly I am writing because I hate anything concerned with VIOLENCE..

Before this, I only watched this kind of incident happened in other country from TV that I found out it is really unbelievable that it is happening in my own country nowadays. Watching video from people who attended the controversial rally of police beating/kicking/punching harmless people on street for ignoring order and people (rally supporter) on streets throwing stones/things to police car really make me feel disappointed with their lack of sense and consideration over their action. Did both part achieved anything from this incident? I don't think anything was gained from it but damages, injuries, tarnished PDRM image and of course attention of world that our country is no longer as peaceful as before.

Watching all of those video of violence make me wonder whether there is no other way but violence to execute our intention/goal? Some people said that violence is needed as a last option when anything else doesn't work but to me it's BULLSHIT! Violence only lead us to worst outcome and should be never considered as an option at all. If only those rally organizer/support accepted the local authorities/government offer to held the rally at allowed place, maybe none of those violence happened..If only the police did not shoot the tear gas to the rally supporter, maybe none of those unwanted violence will happened.. If only both part were using their brain instead of their emotion, maybe none of those PROVOCATION that lead to violence will happen..

BERSIH 3.0 organizer intention might be merely to help the citizen voice out their dissatisfaction toward certain system and issues and never really want any violence or harshness but maybe verbal insult/aggressiveness from emotional supporters provoke PDRM to shoot them with tear gas that triggered the chaos. Those supporter might say that it's only word insult but it is one kind of provocation that will lead to violence and should be avoid. Why not doing it with manner? I mean, if you want to support the rally, just go and shout out your protest but no need to use harsh words or humiliation or insult.. Macam Ambiga cakap, "Duduk & Bantah" saja la.. No need to turn AGGRESSIVE.. I am not there, so I don't know what exactly triggered the supporter violence but still to me violence is unacceptable act no matter what the excuses..

PDRM might be just doing their job but I still don't understand why they have to shoot tear gas toward the supporter? Is it because of the rally supporter start to be aggressive and out of control??  Or is it because the supporter start to harm them? But I didn't see any of those happened in the video that I watched in youtube. If PDRM said they just to control the situation and wanted the crowd to disperse, they should know by now what outcome to be expected and should not repeat the same mistake yet they choose the same method all over again and in the end only worsen the already tarnished image of PDRM.. By the way, did they managed to control the raging crowd?? Not at all... They worsen the situation instead.. I am not judging PDRM action but it's really shock me to see their BRUTALITY against harmless people!

People might say that I don't have the right to give my opinion since I am not there, that my opinion merely based by the video I watched and blog/article I read about BERSIH 3.0 but to me as the citizen of Malaysia, I hate to see my peaceful country turn into battlefield of violence just because of matter that can be settle peacefully. I understand the rally organizer and supporter demand free and fair election because me too want the same thing and I do understand that PDRM just doing what been ordered by them but I don't understand why violence have to come along with it. You can say that I am just ignorance but that's what I really feel and think. What do you think happened when violence versus another violence? Settlement? agreement? NO, when you use violence against violence the result is catastrophic or worst WAR..

I am not trying to criticize because I am no expert but I am just another person who love PEACE and HARMONY that want to express her disappointment over what happened during BERSIH 3.0 which supposed to be a peaceful rally and there is no point to blame anyone. My point is, no matter how pure our intention if we executed it with violence, in the end it will be still look as an evil deed.




As I said before, this is just my two cents okay.. Until next post, Happy Friday and Happy Weekend you all.. Say NO to violence!!

P/S: The alphabet W of 'war' in the title above formed by combined alphabet V..

(Note: all images credited to google.com)

posted from Bloggeroid

Monday, February 13, 2012

There's No Peace..


Obviously, phrases above is not my saying but a person from Facebook who is apparently trying to provoke me because of my comment in her link. Well, see for yourself what they said to me as below:-





As one of individual who is against war and any kind of violence, I really want people all over the world to live in peace and harmony. I also really am like the slogan; 'Peace, No War' since this slogan shout out my deepest wish of peaceful world where people can live together despite of their race, custom, tradition and even religion difference. 

It make me feel down because people call me 'ignorant or merely hypocrite' just because of my fondness of this slogan of 'Peace, No War'..(*Sighing).. For God sake, this fan of Liverpool bombarded me with this accusation just because I said out my piece of mind over their sharing on the incident that happened between Patrice Evra and Luis Suarez.. But that's not what really make me sad the most is the other comment from this person who said that in truth, there's no peace..

I don't care if people call me ignorant or even hypocrite because I know I am not. But, I do care when people said there is no peace because to me that indicate that they don't believe peace can be achieve, that peace will never exist. To me, it sound like they are cursing! Sorry but for a peace lover like me, this kind of saying is like a blasphemy! I realize that our world is full with conflict but it doesn't mean we should give up our faith on the possibility of peace and harmony. I believe peace and harmony can be achieve if people can leave behind their zealotry of power, if people put aside their desire of superiority and if people try to understand the value of equality. Yes, I also think peace can achieve if people stop making trivial issue turn into big FUSS and learn to leave yesterday event where it is..

Well, I won't let this person comment to poison my mind because I know many people out there have the same wish as mine. If this person happen to read this post, I just want to let you know that by saying that there's no peace show how weak you are in believing good thing such peace and you don't deserve any peace for saying such thing..

"If you yourself are at peace, then there is at least some peace in the world."
Thomas Merton
"Imagine all the people living life in peace. You may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one. I hope someday you'll join us, and the world will be as one."
John Lennon

What do you think people? Is there really no peace after all??

Friday, January 27, 2012

SARA 1Malaysia





I guess everyone must already alerted about the new investment program/ saving scheme called SARA 1MALAYSIA. Me too interested to apply this investment but I couldn't because only those with combined gross household income between RM500 - RM3000 eligible to apply..(*sighing)

Image credited to sara1malaysia.com.my
I envy those who can apply this investment program/saving scheme because to me it is one of the easiest way for me to save money especially person with poor financial management like me. To me the RM500 - RM3000 combined household income eligibility is not quite fair because there were lots of family with combined income more than RM3000 especially those who have many children and live in the big city have problem to save money (including husband & me). When you live in the big city/city with many kids, you are still considered low-income group even though your combined income more than RM3000. I don't to explain or elaborate this matter because WE/YOU the urban dwellers know how true this fact.. Hopefully in future they will put this matter into consideration. (^_^) V

I never apply any investment program/saving scheme before this. Not even the ASB loan though I do have ASB because I don't have the budget/commitment to pay the loan but I do save some money according to my ability. You know, like if I have RM100 extra money for those month than that will be my saving. Bad management right? But I want to change that from this year! (*smiling). Though I feel down for not able to apply this SARA 1Malaysia investment program/saving scheme, I am still happy to let you people know how beneficial this investment/saving scheme (at least to me okay!) and you may read more about it from their official website at sara1malaysia.com.my

So for those who eligible to apply, don't forget to get the application Form from the participating banks/agent starting on 30 January 2012 okay! Till next post, Happy Weekend everyone!

Monday, March 28, 2011

I loves Blogging!

I am blogger since 2003 but back then I am blogging using wordpress.com & I opted it to be private, meaning it's solely for me only. By mean, I did personal / private blogging where as my post was not for sharing..
source: Google
Actually it's more like my medium to pour out all of my anger, my sadness, my pain & even my complain to somebody or to everybody..Hmm, it's full with cursing & blasphemy too.. But, when I read it back before I decided to terminate a.k.a deleted it for good before I started this blog, I found out that it's not really that bad yet it reflected how immature I was. It's quite funny but I still have to terminate it because too personal & lots of peoples' name mentioned in it. 

Let see the difference between my habits / styles in blogging now & then..
My blogging habit back then :-
  1. Back then, I don't even bother to customize my blog because nobody gonna  able to read it.. I called it as my "black-book" because of the dark black background with only the text in white.. Imagine that, scary huh..
  2. Back Then, I was blogging for fun to fill up my 'leisure' time. Never ever crossed in my mind that I can earn money from it.. Pathetic isn't it.. 
  3. No pics / illustration / graphic / anything but TEXT in my post.. Hahaha, can you imagine what kind of blogger I was?
  4. I don't give a damn whether my post can attract reader or not
  5. I don't follow anybody
My blogging Habit present time :-
  1. I customizes my blog template - My blog will be always undergo template changing
  2. I join lots of site that enable me to earn money online via blogging.. My favorites is to write a review / post about something ( product / services / events ) since I can practice my writing skill..
  3. I uses lots of pics / graphics / illustration etc to enhance my post attraction
  4. I learn about SEO to drive traffic to my blog
  5. I followed people that share good info / tips / etc
I am happy because I change my blogging habits into something much more meaningful.. With new habits I connected to lots of friend with interesting passion and talent. It's really fun & refreshing to read about their life and opinion and even inspired me to be a better person.. Sharing is definitely a way of showing that we care about people around us.

So, lets keep blogging, lets keep sharing... Blogging Rock!

We're quite happy to cut it into many small useful pieces

Friday, March 11, 2011

Condolences & Prayer for Japan & its people

This Afternoon I got a call from my company supplier, Ms. Anne from Fuji Die Co.,Ltd Malaysia Branch to inform me that they will take some times to reply our request to give us the schedule for preform carbide order. At that moment I was not aware about the earthquake that hit Japan earlier this morning so I ask her why & shockingly get to know this devastated news about Earthquake & Tsunami that hit Japan..

Ms. Anne told me that their headquarter in the center of Tokyo also affected by the earthquake & all of the workers were ordered to go back home until the safety of their building confirmed. I feel bad & really sad to know this news since I have few friend who live & study at Japan but glad to know that  they're safe! ( dapat tau situasi my friend from FB..)

Malaysia Meteorological Department already notify/ warned people who stay near Labuan & Kudat beach to not wandering nearby the sea from 6pm to 12 midnight because of the raising seal leval & strong wave as a impact from the earthquake..

Lets us pray for the safety of people in Japan who involved in this tremor.. Hopefully they will be strong & patient to faced this nature disaster & May God bless them!

A video of Earthquake in Japan :-

Monday, February 14, 2011

Love is in the air!


While most Muslim people campaign to say NO to Valentine Day, here I am shouting this special day of Love to everyone! I wishes my mother, my siblings, my relatives and my friends Happy Valentine's day and hoping that people out there won't condemn me for this act of love..

JAKIM is doing what they have to do to prevent Muslim especially youngster from indulge in any immoral acts and I am totally agreed with it but I think they shouldn't too strict about it if it's celebrates by married couples. To me, celebrating it doesn't mean celebrating the Christian religion but celebrating the act of love by loving every living things.. The concept is same with celebration of other religion festival where the most important is our intention and faith, isn't it?

Isn't LOVE is one of Allah/God best gift in human nature and LOVING is one of the greatest kindness bestow by Allah/God in human nature? Tepuk dada, tanya selera..We know the answer!

Okay, enough with this "HOT" issue. I don't want my blog to enlist in PEOPLE black-list.. =P

 Wishing each other Happy Valentine's day is good enough between my hubby and I because to us, everyday is valentine's day.. Just on 14th February, we will spare some times together to celebrate have dinner together without our 4 hyperactive princes and princess... *Smile*

 I know what you all thinking but no, not an expensive candle-light dinner okay!! Just makan2 biasa at kedai makan "mug mug" nearby our flat area.. AND no flowers and gift too!

However, I write this  poem for my hubby and I hope he will like it ( though he will definitely laugh 1st ):~

Dear Hubby,
You make me cry, you make me laugh
You make me sad, you make me happy
You hurt me, you mend me
You curse me, you praise me
We fight, we make-up
like a series of Yin & Yang
that sometimes sicken me and scare me
But LOVE between us is beyond words
LOVE bring us together
LOVE become our bridge of forgiveness
A bridge that destined by God
A bridge that balancing our imperfection
A bridge that always win

Dear Hubby,
You might not a romantic husband
But you love me in your own way
and I love you for who you are
Long live Tom & Jerry Relationship!






For those who celebrating it, spread the act of loving on this day of LOVE!

P/S:~ 1)  This is just MY opinion so please correct me if I am wrong..
          2)  I am totally against any of immoral act

Monday, January 31, 2011

Happy Holiday Mode!

I woke up today with a BIG smile on my face..
1 more day and I am off for a week!!!!!!!!!

It's not like I am going to vacation yet I am extremely happy because during this period of  time I am able to pamper myself with my favorite books or movie and even have time to do my long-neglected activities; Window-shopping!!

Most of my friends who live here in KL will go back Sabah but since I am off budget then visiting my beloved mom will post-phone until around month of May ( God willing ).. Really feel bad because my mom keep asking me to visit her in near future but my budget is really tight.. Sorry mom... *sob..sob..*

I will try my best to post new entry during this period of time but it will be a short entry only so please do no not hate me okay!!

Last but not the least, I wish all of you a very happy and enjoyable holiday!

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Please End Baby Exploitation & Trafficking!

Baby-for-sale? I know it's not a new issue yet it's still sound menacing and cruel to a mother like me. I surf the star online and this title caught my attention 1st ----> Baby-For-Sale Racket Crippled!

Sometimes I don't understand what kind of person those people who involved in this illegal activity. They are human being after all who gifted with heart to feel love and compassion toward those poor baby yet they are doing the cruelest thing without any remorse.  For God sake, they are just a baby who need protection, not a product to sell off to anybody!




Human trafficking especially baby trafficking is wrong and should never happened after all. For those who involved in trafficking/selling them off let me tell you all this:- Please examine your heart and humanity. If you live on other people misery especially those innocent babies you sold off, then misery will be your friend for eternity.

Congratulation to the local authorities for arresting those who involved in baby trafficking.. Keep up the good job!

For our government: Please stop your debate on trivial matter and focus on something much more important and wide problem such as human/baby exploitation and trafficking! ( we don't want Malaysia to be re-list in human trafficking blacklist as happened in year 2009 when the US government listed us in human trafficking blacklist!) So, forget the political view differences and work your mind together to solve this bigger issue!

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Relaxing the Blurry Mind

3 more days before 2011 yet here I am with my blurry and mingling mind that just now I was staring to the monitor for quite sometimes, like I was frozen for a moment before I start to type down this entry.




Sometimes this condition happened to me because I am too engrossed with my thought on about how fast time passed by. My mind is trying to grasp this fact and I think it stop to function properly due to thousand of memory flashed back that I couldn't put it into words! My mind is like a mixed-up puzzle that I need to rearrange it back to get the picture back.

This condition also happened to me when I am too nervous or anxious about sometime that my mind will acted to block my nerves system that caused me to froze for a while.. Yes, it is really hilarious but that's me and I am used to it.. It's not a bad condition and I think 9 from 10 person happened to face the same condition as me.

Whenever this happened, all I have to do is ~ Take a deep breath ~ Think of the blue ocean ~ Think of My kids smiley face ~ RELAX~ and I will be okay few minutes later!

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

New Gadget or Saving ??

End year is approaching and here I am once again planning what to do with my annual bonus ( if there any for me ). I am excited yet nervous at the same time because I expect too much I guess.. Last year I have to use my annual bonus to cover up our debt, so there not much left for me to buy things I want and there was nothing i kept for saving..

This coming soon annual bonus I am planning to buy new hand-phone, maybe I-phone or Blackberry but I am not sure whether it is necessary since I am not a gadgets collector, plus my hand-phone is still in good condition.. I feel like wanna buy it because I envied all of my friend that already using it!! It's really a worst excuse isn't it? I also thinking on saving it up since I already have everything I want for  now.. I think it's relevant since I wanna buy a bigger car for my bigger family in near future.. Our Viva can't hardly fit us all !

I am good in administering and managing my company account but I am really bad in managing my own finance!! I do have planning but always slipped away from my own planning!! I hope I am able to follow my plan this time so that I can save more money for children future..

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Scream!!!!

Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That's it! I really want to scream out all of my tension off my head but I can't.. Not here in the middle of city full with people who might think that I am crazy if I do exactly that, screaming..

Screaming is a way of releasing tension out of our mind system though not supposedly being done frequently but occasionally.. Mean we cannot overdo it or other consequences might happen..

Back to my teenage years when I am still in my village, I used to scream whenever I feel like I can't take more pressure because it makes me feel good afterward.. screaming loose out my pressure knotted mind and make it think better and clearly afterward.. And I did it in the middle of our paddy field, screaming like maniac echoed by my mother angry voice, asking me what happened while I simply laughed like idiot..

However, here in Malaya I have to go to recreational parks such as Sunway Lagoon, Genting Highland, Bukit Gambang etc. just to scream out my tension.. Such a costly way that make me choose to cry in the dark of my room instead..  Or screaming out my lung to my pillow... Well, we have to be creative sometimes I guess even in finding the best and cheapest way to flush out our pressure..

I guess I will go to one of those recreational park along with my kids and husband because we need a break after all..

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Enough is enough..

I start my day at office with tension and headache gripping my mind.. Why should those people keep asking me about that person problem.. Ya, we might be living together but it doesn't mean i know every single move that person did.. That person also never tell what he gonna do unless that person want me to help him lying and I hate that the most.. All my life I been helping that person too many time without asking anything except some changes in that person habits..

I received a call from those people asking me the arrival time of mine at office and I tell those people the truth ; 8.50am because I don't suspect anything.. Then those people tell me that that person only arrived at office at 9.30am and those people said they don't like it.. All i can say  is; really because as matter of fact it's none of my business.. I work for other company and those people don't have the right to ask me about me and they also don't have to use me to spy on that person.. This act really out of working ethics. However I can't be mad at those people because they asked me nicely.

The problem is that person.. That person acted without thinking of the consequences.. When problem arise, that person blame other people than admitting that he is wrong.. I hate this behavior the most!! there nothing wrong in admitting our mistake.. People will respect us more if we are humble enough to admit that we are wrong than lying to cover up our mistake.. I have learn from the hardest way that lying won't solve anything because once we lied we tend to create more lies and that mean we are living in lies..

I am ashamed of that person behavior and attitude.. That person see the worst in other people but he never realize that he is the worst.. Me too is not perfect because I admit that I have done so many mistake in my life as many as that person.. The difference is I regret every single mistake I have done while that person never and will never admit that he is wrong..

I am tired and i feel just want to give up hope in that person.. Or maybe I already give up because right now the only strength i have are inspire by my children.. They are the reason why I am still alive and fighting hard to give them the best in life..

Thursday, July 22, 2010

CONGRATULATION FB!!!!!!!! THANK YOU FB =)

First of all, congratulation to Facebook!!! Now FACEBOOK USER HITS 500 MILLION !! 
What a great achievement for a social web that was created to mend a broken heart in the 1st place. Nowadays, Facebook become one of world's largest and most popular social networking website.

I am grateful to Facebook because through this social networking now I am connected to my family and relative from Sabah and enable me to know about their updates and what happened to them though I am staying far away from them.

I joined F on September last year in hope to track back all of my friend that i have lost contact for several years due to my personal crisis. My 1st successful find are my friend from Ibukota Kinabalu Collage (KIK), Nattana Simon and she was the one who suggested most of my friend from KIK. Then i managed to track down my relatives and friend from Sabah especially from my hometown Ranau. Though I rarely meet them all in person but at least I shared a lot of things such a ideas, updates, pictures, events, interest etc. with them via FB. 

Though Facebook have been condemned of being the cause of martial problem increases yet I am not totally agreed with those who condemned FB because it depended to the user to determined whether FB gave good or bad effect in our life. As for me, I am using FB mainly to stay in touch with my friends, family and relatives beside to have more friends all over the world. Importantly, we must use our brain while using social networking such as FB and not our gut or lust.

So, THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FB for reconnecting me with my friends, family and relative especially those who live in Sabah.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Internet Love Scam..., Don't Let Yourself Become A Victim

Internet love scam is not a new issue in Malaysia. For the past few years a lot of such cases involved internet love scam which is conducted by Nigerian syndicate was been reported and to our surprise it's still prolong till now despite of the warning from local authority and government.

The latest victim was a professor from Sarawak. In her report , she said her net love posed as a handsome British men who have a very successful career and looking for the right person to be his life partner or in other word a wife. She lodged a report after she didn't received her parcel from the "British men" after she banked in the payment into required from a female caller who claimed that she is a officer from custom department. Last night the Nigerian syndicate was busted by our local authority after they traced the owner of the account bank who turned to be a local female citizen in which the victim banked in the payment. If i am not mistaken, 8 Nigerian and 1 local female was arrested. That's a good job done by our police department and we should be thankful to them for bringing down another group of heartless criminal who played with heart and love.

Then i was remember that i did once encounter a guy from Tagged who posed as a British man from wales but working at Japan as a electronic engineer who called himself as Jeff Joe. Ironically, despite of me telling him that i m just looking for friendship, he keep courting me online using a very sweet talk, so i just follow his flow and let him think that i have fallen into him. Then after few weeks chatting via MSN, he ask for my address so i give him fake one. I am not stupid and i am well aware about internet love scam. I just want to know how far he gonna do.

Few days after giving him my fake address and  my real contact number, he told me that he already shipped a package for me using courier services named as United Cago Services. He even give me the link to those courier service website to check on the parcel he sent to me and my password to check the parcel route.. Here is the link---> http://www.unitedcagoservices.page.tl/home.htm

He sound really convincing and touching when he told me what he sent to me and why he sent it, so no wonder other woman especially those who longed for a gentleman and not alert to the latest scam and fraud happened online will fall for him. Then I received a call from a foreign guy who claimed he is united cago services delivery agent in Malaysia to inform me that the parcel already arrived at KLIA and will undergo security check. You know what the guy sound like a African or Nigerian!!! I just okay to him because i am curious what will happened next.

Then i received an email from the delivery agent not from the courier services itself asking me to make payment of RM1505 for Gov tax (RM655) and custom duty (RM850) into an CIMB account number. I really wished i saved that email but since it was in my junk email then it was discarded already. In a mean while Jeff Joe keep in touch with me via MSN asking me about the parcel progress. So i told him that the parcel was arrived at Malaysia already but i couldn't afford to pay the amount asked by the delivery agent. I asked him to pay the amount for me and guess what, he give me thousand excuses including the unacceptable one like the courier service accept cash only.

So i told this British man that I am well know about shipping things because my company also deals with import export and all payment is made on delivery not before delivery and  i never heard of any courier services such as united cago services and the link he gave to me is not a website. So i told him i want to ask my friend from police department to check on the problem. Guess what, he panicked and ask me not to do anything. He said he will come to Malaysia by himself to settle the parcel problem..

Since that day i never heard any from him anymore.. It seem like he disappeared just like that.. But  I am happy and glad because I am one of those woman who manage to survive from being a victim to internet love scam. Thanks to my alertness to global and local issues. But I am bit sad because i did not no anything to prevent them from finding other victims. I mean I should tell the authority about it.

Woman especially widowed, single and loner should be more careful with online dating. Don't let yourself become another victim of internet love scam. I understand that online dating is something fun but don't let yourself carried away by it. Like I always said, use your brain not your gut and lust.

- Article from The star ( part of )
"A lonely person who receives attention via the Internet or face-to-face will be extremely vulnerable, and this can develop into a more serious relationship,” said Jaques from Integrated Psychological Network Sdn Bhd.
People fall for nice words. Lonely people will be more vulnerable to nice but empty promises.”
 
- Article from The Strait Times, Singapore
Advice from police
Members of public are advised to be aware of such scams and to adopt the following measures:
Take extra caution in befriending strangers on the internet.
1-Do not make any bank transfer payment for bail or fine. The authorities do not require any such transfer of  money.
2-Do not entertain emails or any online messages that are unfamiliar to you.
3-A culprit might spend months building rapport online before asking for money. Even if you think you know this person well, consider that you really do not know anyone from your communications over the Internet - you just know the way he/she chooses to present himself online.

Monday, May 31, 2010

"Tagged" GOOD or BAD??? You Decide...

It's been a while since last time I updated my blog entry.Actually i have a lot of stuff that i want to share but it's all mixed up in my mind and I don't have a free time to sort it out and make a good story..My last entry was about "Tagged", a social web that I have used for a month now and I decided to write more about this social web, so let start..

In a month I have almost 400 friends and most of them are male, aged between 18-40 years old.. I have tried to add female friends but only few of them accepted my request.. Initially I was wondering why but eventually I got my answer after I did some research..

Most of the male user of Tagged did not used their  own picture/image. They either used model/actor picture or inappropriate image.Female user normally used their own picture but most of the picture were very sexy and some o them even posed in their bra and panties only..

Using a glamorous ID/username is normal in any kind of social web but it's even weirdo in Tagged.. I don't even know why they used such ID because I can't even pronounce some of their ID..I was browsing through some Tagged user profile and i was shocked because there were a lot of inappropriate background that been used and i was wondering why those user were not banned or removed by "Tagged" since in their terms and condition was stated that inappropriate/Pornography image/sentences/statement/etc were prohibited and anyone who did so considered violence against the term and condition and will cause the user to be banned or removed, yet so far there were a lot of inappropriate stuff been used  by Tagged user and no action was taken..

Since most of my Tagged friends were male user, so i will describe what kind of male friends i have got from Tagged. Well most of the male user will start the conversation with normal and polite question such as hi, how are you? What's your name? How old are you? Are you married? Can we be friends?? However, once they get comfortable they will start the flirt and talk about sex thing and other dirty talks.. I was shocked 1st time one of them start talking dirty to me.. He said i won't find online friend unless i was feel lonely and needed someone to satisfied my need..My gosh, that was really incredulous..I am so mad and pissed off because of what they think.. It's seem like they have set on their mind that whoever looking for online friends is a desperado person..what a shallow mind they got..

I opened Tagged account to know and get more friends.. I am not searching any kind of thing such as an affair or what so ever.. It's really irritated me to repeat the same thing to all of my Tagged friends.. I don't care if  they want to remove me from their friend list since i won't die if i lost friend that have a shallow and dirty mind.. I am grateful instead..But some of them are good people and accepted the fact that not all female Tagged user is looking for such thing and i can't hardly blame the male user for thinking so because most of the female user were looking for those stuff and some of them even advertising themselves. What a shamed!!
To me, it's up to individual to determine what they want to achieve through this kind of social web.. I used Tagged to get more friends and shared story of life.. I really hope that my tagged friends will respect my intention as much as i respect theirs.. I just like knowing people characters and behavior through this social web and i did learn a lot of people character and mind set and it's give me realization that human can be worst than a beast sometime ...

we can't blame technology for morality catastrophe and down fall because technology don't have a brain.. It's was invented merely to help improve human life.. As a human gifted with brain, we supposed to use it for good and we shouldn't let technology over-power our sense and sensibility..

There are a lot of stuff about tagged i likes to share but i guess that's all for now..

Monday, May 3, 2010

let's " TAGGED"!!!

Last week really a wonderful yet hectic week for me. I get to know another social web called " TAGGED ".
 This social web is more interesting ( to my opinion ) because of the game which they called "pets"..

After I signed-up, i got 12 new friends instantly but they are foreigners who looking for serious relationship instead of regular relationship..

To me, the foundation of ever-lasting relationship is honesty, so i m honest to them from the very beginning when i told them all that i am looking for friendship only..

Anyway, thanks to my hubby for let me know about this social web.. I hope i can make a lot of new friend via these social web..

Well, anyone out there who haven't heard about this social web, have a look yourself and it's up to you to judge whether it's good or not..

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