Valentine's Black Night

Sound horrifying huh? Actually it just that our kids-free Valentine's dinner turned out to be Family Valentine Day because our electricity was turn-off by TNB.. Yes, we got the LOVE LETTER and we already make the payment the same day we got the LOVE LETTER by TNB but due to some mistake on our side and TNB side, our electricity was not connected.. I am gonna tell how how was it happened okay..

The story begin on the noon of last Friday when my hubby went back home to fetch some stuff for my kids only to find out that our fuse was taken off and LOVE LETTER from TNB was put on our door grill. He didn't read the letter because we are expecting it ba . Since we can only take out money from bank on Saturday ( my cheque clear on Saturday ) so we decided to pay it on Monday morning and meanwhile we are using spare fuse (pssst... diam2 saja kio).

On Monday evening, after fetching our kids from their nanny, we found out that TNB haven't yet reconnect our electric power. My hubby call TNB hotline 15454 ( kalau tidak silap la ) and they told us to wait until 10pm.. Nah, terpaksa la we canceled our dinner and bring along the kids to do some shopping at GIANT instead.. After lepak2, Jalan2 keliling Giant for I guess 2 hour, we went back to check up whether the reconnection already done only to see that our flat still gelap-gulita..*sigh*

Hubby suda impatient.. He called again the hotline and this time he talked a bit harsh. The operator asked us the TNB acc number jadi kami pun rushing balik after buying foods at nearby pasar malam because the letter was left at home and we don't remember the acc number.

Sampai rumah ja, hubby opened the folded letter and realized that it wasn't our landlord name!!! Terkajut badak kami and I started to think the worst that I have to pay again and the money burn macam tu ja, meaning untung la siapa yg punya bill..*sob..sob*

After the operator said that we can cancel the payment and transfer it to our landlord acc then I felt a bit relief.. My hubby even asked for permission to use spare fuse to prevent any problem arise and granted.

I cannot enjoyed my off day yesterday because I was thinking of this problem and after we settled it this morning only I feel so much burden lifted from my shoulder..*FUHHH* 

Hopefully next year problem like this won't happen again.. However celebrating Valentines with my kids was fun and worthy..

The moral of the story kawan2, check you bill before you pay okay!!

Note: Next time I will double check dulu bill punya info before making payment. I hate fixing things due to carelessness because it's wasting time & energy. I rather take some times to do the checking than doing the same thing over and over again.. What about you???

Put the smile on your face!

SMILE!!!

That's it! By smiling you can give +ve impression to other people but don't overdo it, otherwise people might think you're nut or something..( Few days ago I posted entry about laughing, jadi ni kali pasal senyum pula )

When you caught someone staring at you, don't show your hostile expression but try smiling because believe me you will lose nothing by doing that.. ( mcm iklan tv tu yg saiful apek berlakon..hahahaha )

Smiling is free cost way to show people that you have a great self-esteem. 

Remember this song:~

SENYUM SEINDAH SURIA

YANG MEMBAWA CAHAYA

SENYUMLAH DARI HATI

DUNIAMU BERSERI

SENYUM UMPAMA TITIAN DALAM KEHIDUPAN

KAU TERSENYUM KU TERSENYUM

KEMESRAAN TERJALIN

SENYUM MEMBAHAGIAKAN

SENYUMANMU AMATLAH BERHARGA

SENYUM KEPADA SEMUA

DENGAN SENYUMAN TERJALINLAH IKATAN

Reason to smile :~

1. Smiling Makes Us Attractive

We are  drawn to people who smile. There is an attraction factor. We want to  know a smiling person and figure out what is so good. Frowns, scowls and  grimaces all push people away -- but a smile draws them in (avoid these  smile aging habit to keep your smile looking great).


 2. Smiling Changes Our Mood

Next time you are  feeling down, try putting on a smile. There's a good chance you mood  will change for the better. Smiling can trick the body into helping you  change your mood.

3. Smiling Is Contagious

When  someone is smiling they lighten up the room, change the moods of  others, and make things happier. A smiling person brings happiness with  them. Smile lots and you will draw people to you.

4. Smiling Relieves Stress

Stress  can really show up in our faces. Smiling helps to prevent us from  looking tired, worn down, and overwhelmed. When you are stressed, take  time to put on a smile. The stress should be reduced and you'll be  better able to take action.

5. Smiling Boosts Your Immune System

Smiling  helps the immune system to work better. When you smile, immune function  improves possibly because you are more relaxed. Prevent the flu and  colds by smiling.

6. Smiling Lowers Your Blood Pressure

When  you smile, there is a measurable reduction in your blood pressure. Give  it a try if you have a blood pressure monitor at home. Sit for a few  minutes, take a reading. Then smile for a minute and take another  reading while still smiling. Do you notice a difference?

7. Smiling Releases Endorphins, Natural Pain Killers and Serotonin

Studies  have shown that smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers, and  serotonin. Together these three make us feel good. Smiling is a natural  drug.

8. Smiling Lifts the Face and Makes You Look Younger

The  muscles we use to smile lift the face, making a person appear younger.  Don't go for a face lift, just try smiling your way through the day --  you'll look younger and feel better.

9. Smiling Makes You Seem Successful

Smiling  people appear more confident, are more likely to be promoted, and more  likely to be approached. Put on a smile at meetings and appointments and  people will react to you differently.

10. Smiling Helps You Stay Positive

Try  this test: Smile. Now try to think of something negative without losing  the smile. It's hard. When we smile our body is sending the rest of us a  message that "Life is Good!" Stay away from depression, stress and  worry by smiling.

Knowing the benefits of smiling, you better not hide your smile!

P/S :- The song reminded me of my memories in secondary school.. Rindu ooooo!

Love is in the air!

While most Muslim people campaign to say NO to Valentine Day, here I am shouting this special day of Love to everyone! I wishes my mother, my siblings, my relatives and my friends Happy Valentine's day and hoping that people out there won't condemn me for this act of love..

JAKIM is doing what they have to do to prevent Muslim especially youngster from indulge in any immoral acts and I am totally agreed with it but I think they shouldn't too strict about it if it's celebrates by married couples. To me, celebrating it doesn't mean celebrating the Christian religion but celebrating the act of love by loving every living things.. The concept is same with celebration of other religion festival where the most important is our intention and faith, isn't it?

Isn't LOVE is one of Allah/God best gift in human nature and LOVING is one of the greatest kindness bestow by Allah/God in human nature? Tepuk dada, tanya selera..We know the answer!

Okay, enough with this "HOT" issue. I don't want my blog to enlist in PEOPLE black-list.. =P

 Wishing each other Happy Valentine's day is good enough between my hubby and I because to us, everyday is valentine's day.. Just on 14th February, we will spare some times together to celebrate have dinner together without our 4 hyperactive princes and princess... *Smile*

 I know what you all thinking but no, not an expensive candle-light dinner okay!! Just makan2 biasa at kedai makan "mug mug" nearby our flat area.. AND no flowers and gift too!

However, I write this  poem for my hubby and I hope he will like it ( though he will definitely laugh 1st ):~

Dear Hubby,

You make me cry, you make me laugh

You make me sad, you make me happy

You hurt me, you mend me

You curse me, you praise me

We fight, we make-up

like a series of Yin & Yang

that sometimes sicken me and scare me

But LOVE between us is beyond words

LOVE bring us together

LOVE become our bridge of forgiveness

A bridge that destined by God

A bridge that balancing our imperfection

A bridge that always win

Dear Hubby,

You might not a romantic husband

But you love me in your own way

and I love you for who you are

Long live Tom & Jerry Relationship!

For those who celebrating it, spread the act of loving on this day of LOVE!

P/S:~ 1)  This is just MY opinion so please correct me if I am wrong..
          2)  I am totally against any of immoral act

Laugh is the best medicine!

Yeah.. It's just an ordinary phrases that we used to hear over and over again but how many of us did practiced it in our daily life?? Do  you realized how much you wasted a day with out a laugh? Cewahh..sound macam mmau bagi syarahan la pula..*LOL*
Just mo sharing ba ni.. 


Okay, Check out the following:~

The many benefits of laughter



1. When you make fun of yourself, you dis-empower those who would make fun of you and disarm possible confrontations.( jangan saja over-do, or else people will misjudge )

2.  Laughter dissolves tension, stress, anxiety, irritation, anger, grief,  and depression. Like crying, laughter lowers inhibitions, allowing the  release of pent-up emotions. After a hearty bout of laughter, you will  experience a sense of well-being. Simply put, he/she who laughs, lasts.  After all, if you can laugh at it, you can live with it. Remember, a  person without a sense of humor is like a car without shock absorbers.
(pendek kata, kalau tension ja ketawa kuat2, confirm hilang tension..buli ka itu macam?? Wakakaka...)

3.  Medical researches have found that laughter boosts the immune system.  The study of how behavior and the brain affect the immune system is  called psycho-neuroimmunology. Though still in its infancy, this science  is rapidly gaining much attention as mankind strives to understand the  mind-body relationship.
( Ketawa la banyak2 supaya jadi kebal..muahahahahaha..)


4. Laughter reduces pain by releasing endorphins that are more potent than equivalent amounts of morphine... ( Tidak payah beli painkiller la kalau macam ni.. )

5.  Humor helps integrate both hemispheres of our brain, for the left  hemisphere is used to decipher the verbal content of a joke while the  right hemisphere interprets whether it is funny or not... ( teda komen sebab scientific betul ni fact.. hehehehe.. )

6. Laughter adds spice to life; it is to life what salt is to a hard-boiled egg...( kalau tidak ketawa rasa macam kureng ba life kan? )

7. Develop your sense of humor and you will find you are more productive, a better communicator, and a superior team player.. (Nanti mo minta ajar sepa2 yg pandai buat lawak la ni.. ;P)

8. Everyone loves someone who can make them laugh. The more you share your sense of humor, the more friends you will have.. ( I am totally agreed with this one..Siapa x mau kawan person yang buli buat kita ketawa kan? )

9. Humor brings the balance we need to get through the turbulence of life comfortably. (Betul..betul...betul..)

10.  Laughter is even equivalent to a small amount of exercise. It massages  all the organs of the body, according to Dr. James Walsh... ( senaman muka la konon ni..)

11. A sense of humor can help you accept the inevitable, rise to any  challenge, handle the unexpected with ease, and come out of any difficulty smiling..

So, don't wait up until fall sick to start practicing this habit in your life..(Yang selalu serius ja tu muka, start la kasi lawak/blur/apa2 yang nampak sempoi.. Rugi oo kalau selalu serius) I am gonna exchange my sleeping therapy to laugh therapy instead because I think it's the better way to cast away my tension.. Talking about laughing I remember a Plato's remark that sound like this :~

"Even the gods love jokes"

P/S:~ I like to read Reader Digest because it have lots of jokes that always make me laugh.. Even the title above is borrowed from Reader Digest...

The 100 Truth Tagged By LennMommaChubby

Thanks to LennMommaChubb for tagging me along..  Lambat sikit post it here, but at last here is it..( 100 question ba, so it takes some time la because I have to find the right time to ans it all at once..)

I was never tagged before and this is my 1st experience being tagged ba ni.. *excited*

So here is my answer :~ 

WHAT WAS YOUR:

1. Last beverage: ~Lukewarm water..

2. Last phone call: ~My mother

3. Last text message: ~ my hunky hubby

4. Last song you listened to: ~

5. Last place visited :  Genting Highland

HAVE YOU EVER:

6. Dated someone twice: Yes..

7. Been cheated on: Yes..

8. Kissed someone & regretted it: No..

10. Been depressed: Yes..

11. Been drunk and threw up: Yes.. ( Long time ago )

LIST THREE FAVORITE COLOURS:

12.~White

13.~Blue

14. ~Pink

THIS YEAR HAVE YOU: (2011)

15. Made a new friend: ~Yes.. (Forum, Facebook & Blog)

16. Fallen out of love:~ No..

17. Laughed until you cried: ~Yes..

18. Met someone who changed you: ~Yes..

19. Found out who your true friends were:~ No..

20. Found out someone was talking about you: ~ Yes..

21. Kissed anyone on your friend's list:~ No..

22. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life: ~Several.. 

23. How many kids do you want to have: ~4.. (fulfilled already)

24. Do you have any pets: ~Yes..

25. Do you want to change your name:~ No.. (I happens to love my name )

26. What did you do for your last birthday?:  ~ celebrating it with my family at home only

27. What time did you wake up today: ~6am

28. What were you doing at midnight last night?: ~Writing in my diary

29. Name something you CANNOT wait for: ~Cuti

30. Last time you saw your Father: ~27 January 2006

31. What is 1 thing you wish you could change about your life : ~Financial 

32. What are you listening to right now:~ Nothing

33. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: ~Never

34. What's getting on your nerves right now:~No

35. Most visited webpage: ~FB & My blog

36. What's your real name: ~Haryati

38. My close friends:~MyHubby

39. Zodiac sign: ~Virgo

40. Male or female :~ Female..

41. Elementary: ~SRK Libang, Ranau

42. Middle School: -~SMK Lohan Ranau

43. High school/college?: ~SMK Lohan Ranau

44. Hair colour: ~ Black.. 

45. Long or short:  ~Long.. (reached my waist)

46. Height: ~153cm.. 

47. Do you have a crush on someone?:~ Yes..( hahaha time form 3 )

48: What do you like about yourself?:  Forgiving

49. Piercings: ~Ears

50. Tattoos: ~Don't Have..

51. Righty or lefty : ~Righty

FIRSTS :

52. First surgery: ~2002.. 

53. First piercing: ~1989..

54. First best friend : ~Falinah Fazlinah Misol..

55. First sport you joined: ~ Marathon..

56. First vacation: ~None

58. First pair of trainer: ~No idea..

RIGHT NOW

59. Eating: ~Chewing Gum

60. Drinking: ~Water..

61. I'm about to: ~going out for Lunch

62. Listening Music : ~No..

63. Waiting: ~No..

YOUR FUTURE :

64. Want kids? : ~Yes..

65. Get Married?: ~Yes..(already)

66. Carrier?: ~No Idea

WHICH IS BETTER :

67. Lips or eyes: ~eyes

68. Hugs or kisses:~ Hugs..

69. Shorter or taller: ~Taller..

70. Older or Younger:~ Younger..

71. Romantic or spontaneous: ~Spontaneous..

72. Nice stomach or nice arms: ~Stomach..

73. Sensitive or loud: ~Sensitive..

74. Hook-up or relationship:~ Relationship..

75. Trouble-maker or hesitant: ~Hesitant

HAVE YOU EVER:

76. Kissed a stranger: ~Yes..

77. Drank hard liquor: ~Yes..

78. Lost glasses/contacts: ~Yes..

79. Sex on first date: ~No..

80. Broken someone's heart: ~Yes..

83. Turned someone down: ~Yes..

84. Cried when someone died:~ Yes..

85. Fallen for a friend?: ~No..

DO YOU BELIEVE IN:

86. Yourself: ~Yes..

87. Miracles: ~Sometimes

88. Love at first sight: ~No

89. Heaven: ~Yes..

90. Santa Claus: ~No..

91. Kiss on the first date: ~No..

92. Angels: ~Yes..

ANSWER TRUTHFULLY

94. Had more than 1 girlfriend/boyfriend at one time : ~Yes..

95. Did you sing today?: ~Yes..

96. Ever cheated on somebody?: ~Yes..

97. If you could go back in time, how far would you go?: ~Childhood..

98. If you could pick a day from last year and relive it, what would it be?: ~My birthday 

99. Are you afraid of falling in love?: ~No..

100. Posting this as 100 truths?: ~Yes.. Indeed... 

I feel it's quite interesting.. Lenn , please tag me along if you want to tag anything okay..( cehh...promote diri sendiri ..Wakakaka)

p/s:~ You are welcome to copy & paste or To tagged yourself, If you interest to answer this questionnaire.

"Sugar Paper" Havoc !

Last night right after dinner, my eldest informed me that he need 2 sheets of color paper and 1 sheet sugar paper for his art lesson today.. I was busy washing the dishes and since I did really not paid attention to his word, I just replied," hmmm.. Besok mama beli". ( hoping he will stop bugging me about it )

I thought he will go away & stop his detailed demand only to be bombarded with question I never expected," Mama, tau tak what is Sugar Paper?"

Then I realized that I don't know what the hell is Sugar Paper! To cover rasa malu, I asked my son, " how to spell it?"

" Maybe S.U.G.A.R  P.A.P.E.R kot, " he spelled it sardonically.. I think he knows that I don't know what is it exactly..*LOL*

So, I asked my hubby and he said," Kertas minyak la tu..Tidak pun Manila Card."
Wakakaka..I guess my hubby did not know what is it too.. *wink*

" It was like manila card tapi kasar sikit. Orang selalu guna untuk buat kad atau presentation." My son explained yet i still don't have a clue what is it.. 

I was irritated and annoyed with the fact that I don't know what is this "Sugar Paper" so I started to grumbling, " How I am gonna to buy it when I  don't know ape benda sugar paper? Cikgu tidak tunjuk contoh ka? bla..bla..bla..bla.. "

My son noticed this so he simply said," Susah apa mama. Just tell the stationery shop you want to buy sugar paper. Cikgu cakap dorang tau apa tu sugar paper." Nah, terkena lagi by my son..*sigh*

You know what? My son is right.. The shopkeeper did know what is it..

P?S:~Sugar paper is tougher type of colored paper. It also known as construction paper and normally available in large sheets. Originally, it was used for making bag to contain sugar.. I guess that's why it called as sugar paper.

THE REWARD I WON : UNIFI FROM TM

I know I left a cliffhanger in my previous entry.. hehehe, don't get mad because I did it on purpose..LOL
Okay Just, you will get your answer in this entry, so baca baik2 kio..^_^ v

I won the bet between my hubby and the reward is..jeng..jeng..jeng...: UniFi !!!!!!
My hubby will install high speed broadband also well known as UniFi from Tm.. I am so excited since I found out that the installation will take place on 20 February.. Rasa mo break-dance ja bila hubby gave me the news..

However, my hubby have 1 ultimatum condition that I must obey in order to keep him paying the cost. He said, "Jangan Overdose". Meaning, I can have my UniFi as long as I do my responsibility as a mother and a wife..*wink*..

I am using streamyx (RM77/month) which belonged to my company before this and I am satisfied with it and rumors said that UniFi is really nice and I think I will definitely loves it.. I think I am going to write about it soon after I experience the greatness of it myself..

I won!

You might wonder what did I won, right??
So, keep on reading because I am going to explain what exactly it is..

Actually, right before CNY holiday, my hubby and I placed a bet on "Net free Holiday".. Let me elaborate it 1st before you guy start guessing and than end up guessing wrong .. "Net free Holiday" in my hubby and mine context mean holiday without checking our email / social network / blog / what so ever concerned with internet yet we still can update our status via our mobile phone.. That's it!

If you noticed, I haven't post any entry from 1- 7 February 2011 except for 1 entry about CNY that I scheduled earlier to be published on 3rd of February and that answer my absence..

I won and though I felt a little bit out-dated yet it worth my times since I spend more quality time with my  beloved family..We need to spare some quality time with our family without any interruption of our online world.. I am persistent net surfer and this kind of bet really knock  me hard of reality on my lack of time with my family especially my kids.. mcm mo kena join rehab pula ni..

Happy Chinese New Year 2011!!

I am not Chinese but this celebration is one of my most awaiting time because I got "Cuti Panjang" during this celebration.

Back at my childhood age, I used to tag along with  my father to "Pekan Ranau" to visit his Chinese friends where I have the chance to watch the lion dance being performed by local people and get ang pow from my father friends.. For a 9 years old girl, I felt it was like watching a Disney Roadshow and win a lucky draw. However, after I reached my puberty ages (I guess when I was around 14 yrs or 15 yrs) I preferred to watch it with my friend than tagged along with my father and got ang pow.. malu konon la

I also loves to hear the sound of  firecracker! prompompompommmmmmm!! It was like music to me yet now this sound really annoy me especially in the middle of night.. See, so many thing changed in me but I still love CNY!

So, I am taking this opportunity to wish all Malaysian who celebrate it a very Happy and prosperous Chinese New Year!!

For my Chinese Friend:-
新年快乐！不要酒后驾驶，因为我还是想看到所有节后你！*wink*

Happy Holiday Mode!

I woke up today with a BIG smile on my face..
1 more day and I am off for a week!!!!!!!!!

It's not like I am going to vacation yet I am extremely happy because during this period of  time I am able to pamper myself with my favorite books or movie and even have time to do my long-neglected activities; Window-shopping!!

Most of my friends who live here in KL will go back Sabah but since I am off budget then visiting my beloved mom will post-phone until around month of May ( God willing ).. Really feel bad because my mom keep asking me to visit her in near future but my budget is really tight.. Sorry mom... *sob..sob..*

I will try my best to post new entry during this period of time but it will be a short entry only so please do no not hate me okay!!

Last but not the least, I wish all of you a very happy and enjoyable holiday!

Hold it Against Me - Britney Spear!

OMG!!!! She is back and along tagged with her is a NICE song!!!
Basi suda ni news tapi still want to share..*wink*

After series of breakdown and failure, she is back with a single that debuted at number one in 19 countries for whole week ( until Bruno Mars bounce her down ).


There is rumors that Britney copy a veteran artist song but to me the song sang by Britney just smashing!
Here is the lyric :- ( copy from lyricsmode.com )

Hey, over there please forgive me
If I'm coming on too strong
Hate to stare but you're winning
And they play my favorite song
So come here, a little closer
Wanna whisper in your ear
Say it clear, little question
Wanna know just how you feel

Chorus:
If I said my heart was beating loud
If we could escape the crowd somehow
If I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me
'Cause you feel like paradise
And I need a vacation tonight
So if I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me?

Verse 2:
Hey you may think that I'm crazy
But I think you're just my type
I might be a little hazy
But you just cannot deny
There's a spark in between us
When we're dancing on the floor
I want more, wanna see it
So I'm asking you tonight

Chorus:
If I said my heart was beating loud
If we could escape the crowd somehow
If I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me
'Cause you feel like paradise
And I need a vacation tonight
So if I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me?

Bridge:
If I said I want your body would you hold it against me?
Yeah Oh
Give me something good
Don't wanna wait I want it now
Drop it like a hood
And show me how you work it out

Chorus:
Alright
If I said my heart was beating loud
If I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me
If I said my heart was beating loud
If we could escape the crowd somehow
If I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me
'Cause you feel like paradise
And I need a vacation tonight
So if I said I want your body tonight
Would you hold it against me

There is no Video Music to share with since the song is not officially release yet.

Supermums 2011!

I am fan of Reader Digest since I am 10 years old ( My 1st hard copy of Reader Digest was given by my beloved father) and the contents never let me down, even the contest is surprisingly interesting!

This year, they are doing Supermums 2011 nominations where people were invited to nominate a mother that they think deserve this acknowledgment by writing about her and submit it to Reader Digest by 28th February 2011.

I have browsed some of the story and most of it really touching... I guess everyone agreed if I said all mother deserve to be call "supermum"! ( excluding those who dumped or abused their kids, they are different kind of mother which I called "heartless" mum ).

Me too a supermum yet not as super as other mother.. ( I get annoyed easily over my kids misbehaved ...*sigh* ). And you, yes YOU are supermum or soon to be too..*wink*.

Most men always wonder what is it about being a mum that qualify them to be call "super".. ( even my hubby ask me the same Q ). Then I ask him, " when our kids fall sick, who stayed up all night long to take care of them?" and he said, " You did."

I asked him again, " When the Eyas not eating well or when Elan grade fall down or when thinking of leaving our kids at other people care, who worried the most?" and again he said, " You did."

"Then that answer your wondering," I told him. Well, a mother is gifted with undying compassion and unconditional love  and that qualified them to be called as "super". It's undeniable that men too can have such intensity of compassion and love but the still the gap is too obvious. ( Just my opinion and i know it differ depending on individual )

Okay..okay.. I think better I stop my rambling here but I will rambling again soon. So, if you have someone in you mind that might deserve this recognition then do it hurry up because the time is tickling!

P/s:- I am rambling only when I write and I am no crazy..LOL

Tom & Jerry Relationship

Who"s not watching this show?

Tom & Jerry cartoon show is one of my all times favorite cartoon show!I grew up with this cartoon show and  I have watched it like thousand time even at the age of 28! In fact, my kids, my hubby and I always watch this show together and it never failed to make us laugh out of breathe.

Some relationships are like Tom & Jerry. They tease each other, knock each other down, irritate each other, hate each other but can't live without each other.

Above phrases was from one of my Facebook friend's status updated ( so i don't really know the author/ origin of it ) that caught my attention that I copied it to share it with my fellow reader because of the truth and meaning of it.

I adored the interpretation of love-hate relationship between Tom the cat and Jerry the mouse. The tease, the irritation, the hate, the torture only make their relationship closer and that only colored and spice up their relationship.

"Tom & Jerry Relationship" does occurred in human life especially those who been married for sometimes and undergoing some phase of uncertainty but don't get me wrong since I like this kind of relationship (excluding knocking out each other okay..)! My hubby and I not a lovey-dovey couple. We always have argument and disagreement that will lead us into hurting each other feeling yet we stick together when obstacles come trying to tear us apart.. However, unlike Tom & Jerry who trying to find point to start their war, we are trying to avoid any cause that will lead us on fighting..... ( well, my mom said, " au osonong misawo-sawo migiodu kesasari" )

No matter what kind of relationship you have the mutual and important foundation is honesty/sincerity . So be honest and sincere with everyone and believe me that you will survive any kind of relationship..

Templates Haunting ongoing!

Ever since I got advices from my fellow blogger friends, I have been browsing through the net over and over for hours yet I haven't find any suitable templates for my blog.. Haiya..

The template I am using now is not really my choice since the themes is so childish and not really about me..
However haunting for suitable template is not as easy as I think because I am no IT genius and complex templates will squint my eyes away! LOL..

I am still in blurry decision on what concept I want of my new templates and hopefully I will stick to it till the end..( I just loves variety ).

Here is some of the link where I found awesome templates :~

• yummy lolly 
• deluxe templates 

Know all the facts before you judge!

This story is simple and does happened in real life:~

One old man was sitting with his 25 years old son in the train. Train is about to leave the station. All passengers are settling down their seat. As train started young man was filled with lot of joy and curiosity. He was sitting on the window side. He went out one hand and feeling the passing air. He shouted, "Papa see all trees are going behind". Old man smile and admired son feelings. Beside the young man one couple was sitting and listing all the conversion between father and son. They were little awkward the attitude of 25 years old man behaving like a small child.

Suddenly young man again shouted, "Papa see the pond and animals. Clouds are moving with train". Couple was watching the young man in embarrassingly. Now its start raining and some of water drops touches the young man's hand. He filled with joy and he closed the eyes. He shouted again," Papa it's raining, water is touching me, see papa". Couple couldn't help themselves and ask to old man. Why don't you visit the Doctor and get treated your son.
Old man said," Yes, We were coming from hospital only. Today only my son got the eyes first time in life".

Moral: "Don't draw conclusions until you know all the facts".

Peoples tend to make conclusion without knowing the whole story, leading other people to the wrong side of the whole truth and I realize that did the same mistake several times that end with bad consequences.

For example, last year I found out that my hubby used the money that supposed to be spend on our kitchen stuff without consenting me and instantly, I accused him using  the money to buy trivial stuff instead of asking him and we end up having a "cold war" for a day, only to find out that he used it to settle his old debt with his friend. You see, if only I ask him rather than accusing him then we won't get through that "cold war" after all..

The main key is don't feel ashamed to ask! Nobody will get mad with you if you ask question ( as long as the question is appropriate and suitable to the situation ). By asking, you will get the answer to ponder with before you make conclusion/judgment!

Please End Baby Exploitation & Trafficking!

Baby-for-sale? I know it's not a new issue yet it's still sound menacing and cruel to a mother like me. I surf the star online and this title caught my attention 1st ----> Baby-For-Sale Racket Crippled!

Sometimes I don't understand what kind of person those people who involved in this illegal activity. They are human being after all who gifted with heart to feel love and compassion toward those poor baby yet they are doing the cruelest thing without any remorse.  For God sake, they are just a baby who need protection, not a product to sell off to anybody!

Human trafficking especially baby trafficking is wrong and should never happened after all. For those who involved in trafficking/selling them off let me tell you all this:- Please examine your heart and humanity. If you live on other people misery especially those innocent babies you sold off, then misery will be your friend for eternity.

Congratulation to the local authorities for arresting those who involved in baby trafficking.. Keep up the good job!

For our government: Please stop your debate on trivial matter and focus on something much more important and wide problem such as human/baby exploitation and trafficking! ( we don't want Malaysia to be re-list in human trafficking blacklist as happened in year 2009 when the US government listed us in human trafficking blacklist!) So, forget the political view differences and work your mind together to solve this bigger issue!

Nuffnang Malaysia newbie (^_^) v

Hello Nuffnang Malaysia Community! Newbie here and please show me the way to $$$ !! just kidding but who I am kidding with right?..
I just registered with Nuffnang Malaysia like 1 hour ago and here I am bragging about it in my blog with twinkle in my eyes..

I know about this community since I created my blog site last year but I took time to join it because;  just say I was naive blogger before okay! I know most of my fellow follower and blog I followed used to this community because I visited their blog frequently and saw the Nuffnang ads there and there in their blog site.

Frankly, I don't really know how this community/site function but I guess it might as same as Google adsense where we can get payment if we do it the right way but I am hoping to know it better soon. Very soon indeed.

Guys and gals, feel free to advise me on how to use Nuffnang effectively.. I am looking forward to know your comment..

Morning therapy with my mom!

This morning I call  my mother to pour out my heart out about my 2nd son.. Last night I punished him because he lost his class timetable and exercise books.. Moreover, my eldest son complained to me that he always wandered alone back at school !

Sometimes my kids behavior especially my 2nd son always cause me headache and sometimes will turn me into "step-mom".. My mother said I need to use different way to approach each of my kids since they are different in characteristic and behavior and I guess she is right after all.. My mother said parenting done with softness is better than that with harshness because harshness only cause bitterness in kids character.. The bond between children and parent is much more strong if we use a softer approach to tackle their misbehavior.

Calling my mother really worth my phone bills because I  know I can  rely on her to advise me.. She is my top idol beside my father!I hope I can figure out my kids character and find the way to advise them in more effective way than punishing them to regret later..

Things To Always Remember

Whenever I feel down, depressed or even madly sad, I will surfed for inspirational stories, poems and even quotes that can help me to lift up my strength and spirit. It is kind of my habit to help me ease down my worrisome heart..

Your presence is a present to the world.
You are unique and one of a kind.
Your life can be what you want it to be.
Take the days just one at a time.

Count your blessings, not your troubles.
You will make it through whatever comes along.
Within you are so many answers.
Understand, have courage, be strong.

Do not put limits on yourself.
So many dreams are waiting to be realized.
Decisions are too important to leave to chance.
Reach for your peak, your goal and you prize.

Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
The longer one carries a problem the heavier it gets.
Do not take things too seriously.
Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.

Remember that a little love goes a long way.
Remember that a lot … goes forever.
Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
Life’s treasure are people together.

Realize that it is never too late.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Have hearth and hope and happiness.
Take the time to wish upon a start.

AND DO NOT EVER FORGET ….
FOR EVEN A DAY
HOW VERY SPECIAL YOU ARE !

I picked the poem above because it remind me to appreciate the existence of me in this world, to live life to the fullest, to dare myself of hoping and dreaming and to appreciate every single  thing that surrounded me.. In short words, it remind me to live, learn and love!

Great Marriage story

I just want to share this amazing story that read from this link :~ AcademicTips Blog
Here is the story that I picked :~

My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.

Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.

I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.

One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times. My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?”

Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes…. My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.

“When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs. You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way. You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.

You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom. You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails, and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the color of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face… Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. ”

My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting… and as I continue on reading… “Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk… I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread….

Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone…

That’s life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands… and that’s our life… Love, not words win arguments… 

This story really touched my heart and I hope it will touch many more..

Earth Day Every Day!

 I loves nature very much and I always wish that every day is an earth day so that people will stop from contaminating the air, water and lands. I loves the wild jungle, the unpolluted river and the fresh and fresh air but nowadays it is really hard to see a jungle or a clean, unpolluted river or to breath a fresh air. 

22 April every year is officially Earth Day since 1970 but I really wish that people will think every day is an earth day so that they will aware about the critical condition of our beloved earth due to human lack of responsibility in taking care of it. Nowadays here in Malaysia, major supermarket and shopping complex held every Saturday as an earth day where peoples were require to use disposable beg/their own bag instead of plastic bag when they are doing their shopping. It's a good effort but I guess it only give a best result if they are strict on it because from my view, plastic bag is still available but you have to pay extra 20 cents per bag!

I get to know a website that doing a campaign on making every day an earth day from one of my Facebook friend and I really touched by their effort on this matter. As much as I supported any effort on saving or preserve our nature and earth from harm, I 100 percent support this site with their campaign to make :~
Every day an Earth Day!

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011!

When the clock strikes twelve on December 31st, people all over the world cheer and wish each other a very Happy New Year. For some, this event is no more than a change of a calendar. For others, the New Year symbolizes the beginning of a better tomorrow. So, if you look forward to a good year ahead, spread happiness with these wonderful New Year wishes.

To me each new year is a new chapter of 365 pages new days that I need to fill up with my sweet, sour, bitter etc memories. However as most people me too wish that I can fill it up with good and sweet memories.

Every new year people make resolutions to change aspects of themselves they believe are negative. A majority of people revert back to how they were before and feel like failures. This year I challenge MYSELF to a new resolution. I challenge myself to just be me myself. I don't want to be somebody else just to make other people notice me. I want to show all of those people who look down at me especially him the real me, the real me who has been hiding within myself..

 

What I really want to say is ~*~*~*~>

What can be said in New Year rhymes,
That's not been said a thousand times?
The new years come, the old years go,
We know we dream, we dream we know.
We rise up laughing with the light,
We lie down weeping with the night.
We hug the world until it stings,
We curse it then and sigh for wings.
We live, we love, we woo, we wed,
We wreathe our prides, we sheet our dead.
We laugh, we weep, we hope, we fear,
And that's the burden of a year

 MY WISH FOR ALL OF YOU WHO READ THIS POST :~

May this new year find you
healthier and happier,
peaceful, content, satisfied,
looking forward
to fresh, revitalizing interests,
a variety of pleasures,
interesting new people,
material and personal successes
to make this new year
the best one yet.
Happy New Year!