Being Simple And Humble

I am doing my early blog-reading when I saw this entry:- Maria Elena: Knowledge should humble you

I read it and said to myself, "yeah, go girl! you are right bout that!" 

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Nowadays lots of people tend to preach using humiliation rather than using persuasions an approach to raise people awareness of religion law. Preaching and debating is two very different way to capture human awareness. Preaching means, you are persuading people to follow the law/rules/regulation/nature/etc with humility and kind words without being arrogant and boasting up how knowledgeable you are. Debating in other way means, you are comparing the pro and con of certain issue/thing/stuff/etc and by doing so you are humiliating/exposing people weakness that may raise people awareness of that issue by exploiting their feeling of shame. To me, I will choose to listen to people who is humble in their way of approaching me because I don't want to change 'my way' just because I feel ashamed of myself.

I always remind myself to lead a simple and humble life. When I did mistake, I admitted it and try not to repeat the same mistake. I am grateful because I don't have much to brag about since my life is average, nothing extravaganza. I am noob in religion and I am noob in life so there is no way I am gonna preach or debate about it to other people though I might like to share my POV/thought/idea/opinion ( it's SHARING k)... I am still learning and there are so much I want to learn it might takes forever before i can consider myself knowledgeable...But my kids is exception since they are my priceless treasure and I love to brag about them (this one can waive ba kan??)....hahahaha, macam aku sorang ada anak (^^)V

What do you think? Which way of above you prefer the most? Relax, we are not debating la...I just want to know your opinion..(*wink2)

Happy Monday, Happy Working & Happy Fasting..

P/S: I like to read Maria Elena entry.. It's original and refreshing!

Cut Your Hair? Sayangnye...

Ya, I already cut my long hair last month on 15th July and in result, I got this remark from people who know me:-

1. 'Kenapa potong rambut panjang? Sayangnye.' - from macik that live in same flat building.
2. 'Kak Molly dah potong rambut ye.. Sayangnye..' - from SIL
3. 'Sayang betul ko potong rambut..Ko sesuai rambut panjang' - from cuzzy and niece back at Sabah.
4. 'I like your newest hair-do but I think you look better with long hair' -from hubby

And many more remark... I have heard this word of 'sayangnye' too many time since I cut my hair last month and now it start to make me feel uneasy..Hmm, do I really look hideous with this new hair-do?

last pic with my long hair

1st pic with new hair-style

It's not easy to take care of that long hair you know.. To maintain such hair really costly. Shampoo, conditioner, hair serum, hair mask, monthly treatment, etc - all need this $$$. If I am loaded,I won't mind but my earning is just average, so it's really a burden to me. Moreover, that long hair of mine make my head feel like tonne weight, plus it took time to dry it up  since i don't like using hair dryer (Tips: it's better to let your hair dry up naturally without using hair dryer because drying hair with hair dryer can damage hair structure)   

That's why I cut my hair beside want to try out different hair fashion but I never expect to get such remark from people especially my hubby..(*Sob2)...Regret? Never! I know how hard to take care of those long hair so I will never regret my decision of cutting my hair. Haiya, it will grow back.. I just feel bit uneasy with those remark and that's all..No regret at all.. 

Actually I cut my hair till underarm length, so I guess it's still consider long kan.. Now,my head      feel lighter and of course my hair dry up faster and my hair care cost reduced.. So, i definitely won't feel any regret despite of all those -ve remarks..(^_^) V

Wanna do my laundry now so see you all again in next entry..

GOOD DAY, HAPPY SATURDAY & HAPPY FASTING!!!

Should I Try Or Shouldn't I Try?

You must wonder what's  the question above all about? Let me do the telling before you all jump into the wrong conclusion kio.. 

Image credited to Mr. Google

Last week hubby, the kid and me went to my Mom In Law (MIL) to buka puasa together. After that, out of nowhere we start to talk about this particular food supplement drinks called Cocoa Collagen which is pretty hot among woman nowadays. MIL said that this product really are good and she suggested me to try this one out.Well, I also aware of this product because some of my FB friend also recommended it to me. 

I guess all woman must know what is collagen and I don't think I need to define it to you. Even my mother knew what it is! hahahaha, really funny when I remembered my mother told me to eat lots of citrus fruit and broccoli to delay aging due to lack of collagen. Jangan main2, orang kampung lagi advance oo sekarang.. I do know that lots of woman out there really concern with this collagen stuff because it's something related to our outer beauty. Jangan nak kata tak kisah pasal collagen ye.. 

I never tried this kind of product before because I don't like any kind milk-based beverage..YUCK!  So, it's a bit hard for me to give this product a try but being a woman, me too have those urge to try product that can enhance my inside and outside health. So far, I only took vitamin C tablet as a health supplement because according to what I read through medical and scientific research article, it's the most important mineral that can help our body to maintain our health and also maintain the collagen level in our body.

However, since I notice the difference of my skin nowadays and 10 year back, I start to consider on taking supplement that focus on enhancing or at least maintaining collagen level on my body though I still believe in natural source. I don't want to look like 40 years old woman when I am just 29.. I sure don't to wear make-up 24/7 to cover that! And sadistically, I don't even know how to put on make-up! Masalah..Masalah.. @_@

Yes, nobody can stop aging because it's part of life span and everyone will undergo the process and I am thinking to try out this kind of product not to stop the aging process but only to prevent aging before the time. Who want to look like 40 when she/he is just 30, right? I will never put myself at the same level of those celebrities who are suppose 50 years old that have a stretched-plastic face. You know what I mean.. Haiya, just look at our 1st lady la..Tegang bangat!!

Opsss, did I rants too much? Okay, better back to the main Q:- So should I give it a try? Or shouldn't I give it a try? Or maybe you gals can suggest me another type of product with same purpose? Share2 la you all punya beauty secret kio..

I really want to rant some more since I haven't rants in this blog for some time but I got to go now because I need to settle 1 pending paperwork which my boss need for this afternoon meeting with customer. 

So until next entry, GOOD DAY, HAPPY FRIDAY & HAPPY FASTING!

Wordless Wednesday #5

"Tu Lah, Beranak Lagi Ramai"

I am used to phrases such above. Lots of people  said that to me every time I said something like "Adui, pening betul la dengan korang ni" , "Kenapa suka gaduh2 ni?", "duduk diam jap boleh tak?" and etc.. You know words you might blurt out when you can't stand your kids mischief and manner any longer. I guess mommies always blurt this kind of word but we never really mean it, aren't we mommies?

I have to admit that the feeling of ashamed did crossed my mind once and even complained to my mother only to be scolded by her. She said, "You should be proud and grateful because you are healthy enough to give birth as many as you can. Do you know there are people out there working and praying hard just to have a baby of their own?" Yeah, she got a point there and I couldn't argue the truthfulness of her word. 

Then I thought of those who have 6 or 7 or 8 or even 14teen kids and that killed all of those nonsense feeling of ashamed or what so ever. So now whenever people say the phrases above to me, I just smile to them and said, "Ramai anak, Banyak berkat, Murah rezeki" 

Sometimes they might be good but often they might be naughty

Sometimes they make me mad but often enough they me laugh

Their laugh, their smile, their tear are essence of my life

Their existence give a new meaning to my life

I have POV, what say you? Ahahahaha.. A very short entry but what to do since my messy work desk really need my attention right now..

Happy 8th Fasting day, happy Monday & Have A Good Day!

eBay The 'Lubuk Duit'

Bonjour everybody! How's your weekend? How is your fasting? Aiyo, banyak benor soalan ko ni.. I know..I know.. It's been a while kan since last time I posted an entry to this blog of mine.. Busy ba konon sekarang..

Image credited to Mr. Google

This gonna be a very short entry so lets the story begin... Okay, my hubby started to sell his product via eBay since mid-July and Alhamdullillah, so far the sell is great. No wonder people call eBay as a 'Lubuk Duit'. Thanks Just for suggesting us this method. Really grateful to all friend who advise us. Berkobar-kobar semangat hubby mo menjual di eBay.. No more feeling down as I told you in my entry about poem to cheer up my hubby.

Well, this is our 1st experience selling on eBay and at 1st we did face some problem especially regarding paypal account but now everything is settled. Hubby only checked our eBay account after work hour because he didn't want this part-time business disturb his performance in office and it's really excited to see the accumulated amount increased each day. The only thing that make us irritate with eBay is the "Joy-Bidder" who bid just for fun and never intended to pay for what they bid. Really frustrating when we encounter this people because the only action we can make is blacklisted them and in the end they still keep doing this hobby of them by creating another account.. Haiya, I hope eBay team can look into this matter and find the best solution in future.. Oh ya, I always remind my hubby to make sure that his product must meet his customer satisfaction. I mean, since customer only saw the pics of the product so we must make sure that what customer see is what they gonna get.. Honesty is the best quality that will ensure customer loyalty, betul tak...

So that's all for today. I guess it's just a short boring entry but I promise next time I will post something longer and informative kio.. Hey, how about YOU? Have you tried selling any product using eBay? Share2 experience la kawan..

Good night and sweet dream everyone..

You Better Watch Out "Kaki Kipas"!

Yep, that is the warning I am going to tell to this particular person. If you want to ask me whether this person is my co-worker then my answer is NO but she is co-worker of my husband who happened to live in same flat building as us. 

Actually from the very beginning since my hubby told me about this new girl that going to work with him (July last year), I already have this uneasy feeling about her. She is a widow and only have a daughter but the daughter live with her ex-husband. But that not the reason why I feel uneasy with her more likely because nobody want to hire her after she 'quit' from her former work, plus the macik2 at my flat area told me that she is wild girl and that's why her husband divorced her.

During that time, my hubby said "biar la, kesian". But after few month working with her my hubby started to complain about her. he said she always act like she busy with work whenever their boss is around when the truth is she keep doing the same thing from morning till evening and then doing OT some more! Pendek kata sudah tunjuk belang la..

How can I said my hubby is telling the truth? Because his boss is a friend of my boss and whenever he come to my office he will talk about this and that goodness of that girl though in reality the girl don't know anything. She can't even interpret simple drawing and a simple stuff. She work in quality control dept under my husband supervision and my company happened to be their supplier for certain material. So, I know the her incompetence..  

My hubby said that whenever she think that my hubby is not watching, she will busy surfing the net and to cover her track, she put 1 stuff/task on her desk, so that whenever boss come in, she can act like she is checking the stuff.. Her daily routine at office is acting doing nothing in the morning except acting and kipasing the boss then  buat2 busy in the evening so that she can do OT.. Pandai betul kan ni perempuan..

She will do anything except 'working'

Hubby's boss 'sayang' this girl because she always 'kipas/ampu/FLATTERER' his boss with thousand lies. Tonight, my hubby said his boss want the girl memorize the KANJI (Japanese words) because this girl said she is learning Japanese language.. BLUEEEKKKK!!! I feel like want to vomit to her face! Ayoo, English pun ko x reti, ni kan nak belajar Jepun.. Udah2 le mengipas kang kipas ko koyak, pecah tembelang ko.. Memang boleh menang award ko ni!

I told my hubby to sound her but being my hubby who happen to have a soft heart towards woman/girl, he just keep all the hard feeling in his heart and then pour it out to me once at home..Serve you right for being a good listener, I said to myself and mentally slap myself..

I am lucky because I am not in his place because I know exactly what will happen if I am in his place.. Memang kena terus tu perempuan.. Why I am so angry? Saya benci orang yg tidak jujur semasa berkerja dan suka mengampu untuk berjaya. 

Hubby feel down to continue working there because his boss always try to find his fault due to this girl bad mouth. My hubby really good in his work and I am saying this not because  he is my hubby but because lots of people who are wise enough to differ between a good worker and a good flatterer say so. 

Well, I am done pouring out my 'lava'. Thanks for lending me your attention/ear/eye kio.. As for my hubby, I hope he can find the courage and spirit to stand still and as for the goody two shoe girl, I hope she will realize that sooner or later her lies will come out and trap herself.

What about you people? Have you ever been encounter a person so-called KAKI KIPAS?? Leav eyou with this cepumas question and don't forget to comment..comment..and comment..( Ishh..Ishh.Ishh. Marah2 pun sempat lagi mo suruh komen)

Au Revoir!
(All Image credited to The handsome Mr. Google) 

Wordless Wednesday #4

Why Do I Like To Be-Friend With A "Mak Nyah"

While I was sorting out all the invoices/Purchased order/Delivery Order etc to be file, all of sudden I remember soalan cepumas from my dear hubby from last sunday..

"kenapa awak suka kawan dengan maknyah ye?baru je kenal dah friendly giler? tak geli ke?" 

Hubby asked this question after we sent my baju kurung Pahang & Riau order to the tailor/boutique shop which owned by 2 mak nyah (I preferred o call them  mak nyah instead of pondan) Yep, I have to admit that I get along very well with them though that was the very 1st time I meet them. 

Frankly, I don't really have a reason why I like to be-friend them. Maybe it's because they are not "penggosip" like a normal girls/women and maybe they are not as arrogant as normal women. Ya, they like to be praised but overall they can be really a good 'girl' friend compare to normal girl friend.

Image By Mr. Google.

But beware because if you hurt their feeling, they can be your worst nemesis/nightmare. I know lots of people out there prejudice of them and said a lots of bad things about them but to me, I treat them just like I treat my girl friends..To me, there is no good if we attacking them with bad words. Moreover not all of them are immoral and quite lots of them did have a good jobs and business.. Better if we try to understand the gender dilemma within them by be-friend them and from there we can think of a way to advise them. Perghh...Sound macam pakar la pula..hihihi

Importantly, I am friendly to all people who is not arrogant and return my smile no matter you are a woman or a man or a maknyah or even if you are an alien..HOHOHO... If you smile to me than I consider that you are a friend of mine.

"A bit geli juga la ling but dorang pun manusia macam kita juga..Just because they are transsexual, doesn't mean we have to hate them. They are friendly people, so I think it's not a problem at all.."

That was my answer to my hubby.. Ya, biasa ja but sincere from my heart.. So, what do you think of golongan maknyah? Kasi hambur ja apa yang ada di kapla because I know you guy do have your own opinion.. Sharing is caring..We share our opinion not because we hate them but because we care for them..Am I right?

Few more hours to go before tut tut tut..!! Sabar ko nanti batal pula..(^^) V

The Lazy Me On Monday & Technorati Try-Out

Good day everyone!

How is your 1st day of fasting? Me? Well, I am doing fine but to tell the truth I feel a bit 'malas' to do my work today.. My mind keep thinking of my pillow and blanket and I yawns all the time..Hahaha, luckily my boss is not around...(*yawning again)

Actually, I am not suppose to post anything this morning since I plan to do it later tonight but I am kind of bore and just now I surfed the net and decided to sign up with technorati.. Yeah, I know most blogger already done this so it's might sound 'basi'..hihihi..kesian kan..

I don't really know the function of Technorati but from the information I read via net, it's have something to do to attract more visitor right? I am not really keen about stuff like this since I am blogging just for fun but I guess it won't do me harm if I try out kan... Trying for fun, just to see whether it does really increase the visitor to my blog..

So, the conclusion is, this entry is just for Technorati verification only (YF3A8W8RFY25) and sorry for wasting your time with such boring entry..

Happy Monday & Happy Fasting..

(Both Image By Mr. Google)

P/S: Thinking of what to buy at the bazaar Ramadhan today? Hopefully will not 'rambang mata'...