Blister/Rashes Around My Lip - Advices/Tips Needed!!!

 I no longer can stand this anymore! Normally I rather suffer in silence but this time I don't care anymore because it's happening again and I don't think I can't stand the injection and medication anymore! I know I am whining like kids right now but have look on the picture (self-taken with HP Camera) below and you will understand why..

Redness around my lip - less obvious since I camouflage it with make-up

Yep, my upper and lower lip area is having this redness that feel so itchy and I couldn't scratch it since it will turn into watery blister. This never occurred to me, not until my sis in law asked me to tried this lip softener/moisturizer of Mary Kay product last February. Then it's happened and until now I regretted it. I already consulted a doctor and skin expert and they say that I must be allergic to this product and should avoid from using it. That's is the 1st and last time I will ever tried Mary Kay product but the problem  is once I stopped using the lotion (prescribed by doctor and only can get from hospital or clinic) this problem will occur again and that's really troublesome. I don't want to depend on this lotion for whole of my life! ARRGGGHHH!!! There goes my blogging mood..

If any of you out there have any advice or tips on how to solve or at least to reduce the redness and itchiness please do share with me. Seem like I have to stay indoor today and until this ugly redness subside ..(*sigh) 

A Box Of Kisses

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Ehem... I have stare to the monitor for quite some times but couldn't find the right words to start my rant today since I am kind of free. I didn't realize that I have zoned out until my hand-phone rings. Oppps, hubby called to inform me that he will arrive in 20 minutes to fetch me out for lunch. Mean I only have 20 minutes to type down my rants! 

Okay, since today is Friday and last working day for this week, I thought (earlier) I am  not going to ruin anybody weekend mood by writing something teary-dreary. However, I don't have time to elaborate any idea that lingered in my mind so I decided just to share below motivational story, again from academictips.org

Some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree.

Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, “This is for you, Daddy.” He was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.

He yelled at her, “Don’t you know that when you give someone a present, there’s supposed to be something inside it?”

The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said,”Oh, Daddy, it is not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy.”

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.

It is told that the man kept that gold box by his bed for years and whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each of us as humans have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, friends, family and God. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold. Often enough, in our effort to achieve all of those temporary fame and wealth, we hurt our loves one feeling especially our kid, parent and even our sibling and only realize what they mean to us when it's too late.. I know the feeling of guilt and regret over neglecting/hurting the one who close to me.

So, treat your love one nicely so that you won't live with the same guilt and regret I feel and believe me that your life will much more meaningful. Spend time with your family, kid, parent or even your sibling because in the moment of difficulties they were the 1st person you will turn to for encouragement..

GEEEZZZZ.. Time's up! Need to fix my make-up because hubby will be here in any minutes.. Have a nice Friday and blasting weekend!

My Top 3 Choices - Websites/Blogs of Jokes & Funny Stories

I love jokes, I love funny stories and I admire all of those people who can tell / write funny stories and make a jokes. Some people said everyone can make a jokes but not everyone got the natural talent to do so and yep, I am one of those people who barely know how to make jokes or even telling / writing funny stories. Every times I try to re-tell funny stories to my kids or y husband or my friend, it's turn out to be a serious story and irritated the hell out of me when they end up saying, " where is the funny part?" (ARGGGGH!!!! )

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I am not going rants about my inability to make jokes or telling/writing funny story because I just want to share few link/website/blog where I feed myself with jokes/funny story that always took away my bad mood and make me smile or even laughing out loud. Actually there are many of them out there but I will only mention three of my favorites website/blog.

My top choice is Life Sketches Of Gunsirit because I simply like all of his funny story about this character called "Ongkor" but he got lots of other funny story with different characters and some of the funny stories was happened in his real life. I got to know about his blog from my blogger friend Beaty and the 1st jokes I read was Your Feet Go To Heaven First. Since then I put him on my blog-list to keep me updated to his entry so that I won't miss out any funny stories from him. He is brilliant to use character such as Ongkor, Yanak-anak, Kinomulok, Kitut etc to spice up his stories because to person like me who grow up with bedtime story about this character, it make me feel like they truly exist! 6 weeks ago, my hubby might asked, "why are you laughing like a madwoman?" if he saw me laughing in front of the computer monitor but now he too, will join me after he read one of Guns entry about ' Ongkor In Department Store '. Well, he is kind of gobsmacked and fall in love with this character called "Ongkor"! He even laughed louder than me and sometimes he will banging the table or tapping his head while reading jokes about Ongkor! Kuat ooo penangan si Ongkor kan..=P

My second choice is Reader Digest - Jokes ( actually it's my 1st choice before I got to know Guns website). I have know this website for quite some time and I even buy the book because other than funny stories/jokes, it also consist with lots of informative and good article. The jokes/funny stories was posted by reader all over the world so you can read various type of jokes. I even adapted its motto "Laugh Is The Best Medicine" in my life to cure my glum and moody day.

The third choice of mine is Jokes Blogger a blog who used Tumblr as platform. I followed this blog via my Tumblr account and keep updated with the latest entry from there. Some of the jokes /funny storiesmight sound sarcasm but still it can make me smile.

If music can heal your soul, well jokes and funny stories definitely can erase our moody day if we let it be. I always console my mood with jokes/funny stories because It the cheapest and fastest way, plus it's really work for me. However, people have different ways to tend or even mend their glumly mood and I am grateful that I can mend mine with the simplest way; by reading or hearing jokes or funny stories. How about watching comedy? Well that too but I leave it for future entry okay.

Gotta stop here. Need to inform  my hubby about the latest entry by guns and then go out to feed my hungry stomach.. My mood already sated now it's time for my stomach before it start rock & roll in there.. Have a nice day! (*wink)

P/S:- This is my personal appreciation to those who wrote a good jokes that helped me to tend my moody day. 

Back To Memory Lane:- Biodata

Yesterday, a friend of mine tagged my a pic of mine in Facebook that make me shout "Oh My God! Is that my handwriting?" loudly. I couldn't believe she still keep all of those bio-data after years. I couldn't even remember when did I wrote those bio-data..

My Biodata

I showed the pics to my hubby and guess what happened? He laughed on me! Between his laugh he manage to ask, "How old are you when you wrote those bio-data?" 

"For God sake, how could I remember. It's like ages ago!" I snapped to him, annoyed being his object of jokes yet me too couldn't help myself from laughing as well. Just look at the pics of my bio-data  then you will understand why my hubby laugh of me. It's so damn funny! It's good to be remind about this stuff actually..

Correction, my place of birth is not Hospital Daerah Ranau because according to my mom who know the fact very well, I was born in our home at Kampung Tudangan, Ranau. My mom said, she couldn't make it to the Hospital since there are no transportation and I just couldn't wait up to see the world =P that the delivery process was as easy as poo-pooing.

Yep, my hobby is still reading. I loves reading!

Ambition: Doctor or Scientist ? I could never be a doctor because I cannot stand the sight of blood. However, I almost become a scientist because I was a chemist before I change my career to another profession (accounting & administration) due to health issues.

Sweet memory? Of course my childhood years! I am not sure  why did I said getting a new friend as a sweet memory back then but maybe it's because I was a very shy girl back then and getting a new friend consider a sweet thing for a shy girl like me.

Bad memory? Lots of bad memory but I considered my ordeal in dealing with my beloved father death is the bad amongst all. BUT, being chased by this nasty dog of my neighborhood also one of my bad memory.I have lots of girlfriend and boyfriend but my best pals are Falinah, jarinah, Linda, Betsy, Eyrah, Puspawaty, Ganda, Giwin, Jaskson etc and most of them are my classmates.

THANK YOU still a sweet word for me but I will say "I LOVE YOU MOMMY" is the sweetest of all and I hate the words " WAR" and "VIOLENCE".

Actually looking back to this bio-data makes me realize how naive and foolish I was  back then. It also remind me that we can only planned our future but in the end God is the one who decide our destination. 

Have you ever stumble upon your old notes, bio-data etc? How do you feel about it? Come on, don't be shy, share it to us!

Okay, now you can laugh as much as you can. I won't get mad because laugh is the best medicine!

My pillow and blanket is missing me so gonna stop now and drifted to lala land with them. Good night and remember PEACE NO WAR! (^_^) v 

P/S: I wonder whether kids nowadays still did this kind of activities, you know asking their friend to fill their bio-data book.. 

Whore In Bed?

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Good day readers! Just now I browsed through the net and after reading few article about this VERY HOT TOPIC about a group of Malaysian women launching this "obedient wife club" who urges its member to be "whore in bed" and obey their husband to prevent social ills such as divorce and domestic violence, I can feel this fingers of mine itching to tap on the keyboard and type down my own opinion about this topic. I don't have to provide you the link of this hot topic since you can just copy paste it to your browser & puff, you will see lots of search result over this topic. It's caused an uproar and havoc amongst women! ( I am one of those who feel angry over this deprived suggestion)

Okay, 1st of all, my personal impression; those women should examine their head for thinking such ridiculous solution and they should feel ashamed for degrading a women status, wife especially as low as a "whore". If anybody called me by those horrible word, they will definitely have my hands mark on their cheek, even if those people is my hubby. 

When I think about this club suggestion, I feel like I want to strangle the leader of this club for ever voice out this shameful idea. Yep, according to Islamic law, wife's number 1 priority is her husband (though I put my kids as my priority) but as a wife, we have a right and pride  that a husband should respect. What kind of respect does it reflected when a husband ask his wife to "perform" like a WHORE? Come on, obedience have nothing to do with the way you "treat" husband in bedroom. Moreover, there are no guarantee that a woman can keep her husband from straying away by acting as submissive as a whore and women are more likely being take for granted for doing so. 

Maybe they are just using the word as a metaphor but still the word in humiliating and inappropriate. Maybe what they really mean is as a wife, we should treat our husband "nicely & skillfully" in bedroom.  If they used the term of  "LOVER" rather then "WHORE" maybe people especially a wife like me feel less disgusted with the suggestion. Hmm, Dr.Rohaya, next time please mind your word okay!

However, we are no longer live in a caveman days where the man just pulls the women hair, take her to the caves and have his way because back then woman only regarded as sex toys and breeding media but this is 21 century where women contributes lots more than just being a toy sex and breeding media so there were no word such submission. 

What I think of this club? I am too shy and too "wise" to join this kind of club and there is NO WAY I am ever gonna join this club since I am too self-conscious to mark myself "Obedient wife" when I always have this cold shoulder war with my hubby especially when it's concerned with our leisure time; his-aquarium while mine-books & movies! Well you know, like Tom & Jerry relationship.

My god, I think I rambled out of topic already! Well, my main point is:-

1. Never ever referred wife as a WHORE even if  you don't meant it and how kind is your intention because there are vast difference between a wife and a whore. A wife is a respectful title but a whore is title of tramp!
2. Don't just saddle the burden of marriage onto one shoulder.It takes two to make a marriage work. Both the husband and wife should be good to each other. That is how thing wok well.  

P/S:- 

- Anybody who feel like a goody shoes obedient wife, please do not hesitate to join this club with shallow mind leader ( please note the sarcasms tone) ..hihihi, PEACE NO WAR (^_^) V

Thought For The day:- How The Poor Live

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When I was just a little kid, I dreamed to be wealthy person so that I can buy big houses, can travel all over the world and can have everything my heart desired. At that age I thought money is everything and never crossed in my mind that there are more important thing in this world than money. Yep, maybe it's true that money can buy anything, can even buy your happiness but at the same time money make you blind and less alert with our surrounding.

Lots of people who have more than enough money tended to forgot how to appreciate their wealth and wasted it over trivial thing. Lots of wealthy people forgot to be grateful for their fortune and never give back to the less fortune people. To think of this fact, I am glad and thankful for what I have and achieved right now though I am far from wealthy but at least I earned it with my own sweat.

If people ask me whom I respect the most, wealthy people or poor people? My answer is poor people because to me they are fighter, a hero in the battle of misery. I respect them for working hard just for a bowl of rice. I admired their will to keep on living though they have less than other people.

Ya, wealthy people might earn their fortune by working hard too but over time they will forgot the hardness because they are too accustom to their comfort zone. If they were put into  those poor people shoes , I don't think they will last for even a single day.

Okay, I think I have rants too much already. Before I stop and switch off my PC, I think I'll leave you all with below moral story from academictips.org to ponder with:-

One day, a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family. On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, “How was the trip?”
“It was great, Dad.”
“Did you see how poor people live?” the father asked.
“Oh yeah,” said the son.
“So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father.
The son answered, “I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden, and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden, and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard, and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on, and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us; they have friends to protect them.”
The boy’s father was speechless.
Then his son added, “Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are.”

Enjoy & have a blasting Sunday!