Happy Holiday Mode!

I woke up today with a BIG smile on my face..
1 more day and I am off for a week!!!!!!!!!

It's not like I am going to vacation yet I am extremely happy because during this period of  time I am able to pamper myself with my favorite books or movie and even have time to do my long-neglected activities; Window-shopping!!

Most of my friends who live here in KL will go back Sabah but since I am off budget then visiting my beloved mom will post-phone until around month of May ( God willing ).. Really feel bad because my mom keep asking me to visit her in near future but my budget is really tight.. Sorry mom... *sob..sob..*

I will try my best to post new entry during this period of time but it will be a short entry only so please do no not hate me okay!!

Last but not the least, I wish all of you a very happy and enjoyable holiday!

Hold it Against Me - Britney Spear!

OMG!!!! She is back and along tagged with her is a NICE song!!!
Basi suda ni news tapi still want to share..*wink*

After series of breakdown and failure, she is back with a single that debuted at number one in 19 countries for whole week ( until Bruno Mars bounce her down ).


There is rumors that Britney copy a veteran artist song but to me the song sang by Britney just smashing!
Here is the lyric :- ( copy from lyricsmode.com )

Hey, over there please forgive me
If I'm coming on too strong
Hate to stare but you're winning
And they play my favorite song
So come here, a little closer
Wanna whisper in your ear
Say it clear, little question
Wanna know just how you feel

Chorus:
If I said my heart was beating loud
If we could escape the crowd somehow
If I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me
'Cause you feel like paradise
And I need a vacation tonight
So if I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me?

Verse 2:
Hey you may think that I'm crazy
But I think you're just my type
I might be a little hazy
But you just cannot deny
There's a spark in between us
When we're dancing on the floor
I want more, wanna see it
So I'm asking you tonight

Chorus:
If I said my heart was beating loud
If we could escape the crowd somehow
If I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me
'Cause you feel like paradise
And I need a vacation tonight
So if I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me?

Bridge:
If I said I want your body would you hold it against me?
Yeah Oh
Give me something good
Don't wanna wait I want it now
Drop it like a hood
And show me how you work it out

Chorus:
Alright
If I said my heart was beating loud
If I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me
If I said my heart was beating loud
If we could escape the crowd somehow
If I said I want your body now
Would you hold it against me
'Cause you feel like paradise
And I need a vacation tonight
So if I said I want your body tonight
Would you hold it against me

There is no Video Music to share with since the song is not officially release yet.

Supermums 2011!

I am fan of Reader Digest since I am 10 years old ( My 1st hard copy of Reader Digest was given by my beloved father) and the contents never let me down, even the contest is surprisingly interesting!

This year, they are doing Supermums 2011 nominations where people were invited to nominate a mother that they think deserve this acknowledgment by writing about her and submit it to Reader Digest by 28th February 2011.

I have browsed some of the story and most of it really touching... I guess everyone agreed if I said all mother deserve to be call "supermum"! ( excluding those who dumped or abused their kids, they are different kind of mother which I called "heartless" mum ).

Me too a supermum yet not as super as other mother.. ( I get annoyed easily over my kids misbehaved ...*sigh* ). And you, yes YOU are supermum or soon to be too..*wink*.

Most men always wonder what is it about being a mum that qualify them to be call "super".. ( even my hubby ask me the same Q ). Then I ask him, " when our kids fall sick, who stayed up all night long to take care of them?" and he said, " You did."

I asked him again, " When the Eyas not eating well or when Elan grade fall down or when thinking of leaving our kids at other people care, who worried the most?" and again he said, " You did."

"Then that answer your wondering," I told him. Well, a mother is gifted with undying compassion and unconditional love  and that qualified them to be called as "super". It's undeniable that men too can have such intensity of compassion and love but the still the gap is too obvious. ( Just my opinion and i know it differ depending on individual )

Okay..okay.. I think better I stop my rambling here but I will rambling again soon. So, if you have someone in you mind that might deserve this recognition then do it hurry up because the time is tickling!

P/s:- I am rambling only when I write and I am no crazy..LOL

Tom & Jerry Relationship

Who"s not watching this show?

Tom & Jerry cartoon show is one of my all times favorite cartoon show!I grew up with this cartoon show and  I have watched it like thousand time even at the age of 28! In fact, my kids, my hubby and I always watch this show together and it never failed to make us laugh out of breathe.

Some relationships are like Tom & Jerry. They tease each other, knock each other down, irritate each other, hate each other but can't live without each other.

Above phrases was from one of my Facebook friend's status updated ( so i don't really know the author/ origin of it ) that caught my attention that I copied it to share it with my fellow reader because of the truth and meaning of it.

I adored the interpretation of love-hate relationship between Tom the cat and Jerry the mouse. The tease, the irritation, the hate, the torture only make their relationship closer and that only colored and spice up their relationship.

"Tom & Jerry Relationship" does occurred in human life especially those who been married for sometimes and undergoing some phase of uncertainty but don't get me wrong since I like this kind of relationship (excluding knocking out each other okay..)! My hubby and I not a lovey-dovey couple. We always have argument and disagreement that will lead us into hurting each other feeling yet we stick together when obstacles come trying to tear us apart.. However, unlike Tom & Jerry who trying to find point to start their war, we are trying to avoid any cause that will lead us on fighting..... ( well, my mom said, " au osonong misawo-sawo migiodu kesasari" )

No matter what kind of relationship you have the mutual and important foundation is honesty/sincerity . So be honest and sincere with everyone and believe me that you will survive any kind of relationship..

Templates Haunting ongoing!

Ever since I got advices from my fellow blogger friends, I have been browsing through the net over and over for hours yet I haven't find any suitable templates for my blog.. Haiya..

The template I am using now is not really my choice since the themes is so childish and not really about me..
However haunting for suitable template is not as easy as I think because I am no IT genius and complex templates will squint my eyes away! LOL..

I am still in blurry decision on what concept I want of my new templates and hopefully I will stick to it till the end..( I just loves variety ).

Here is some of the link where I found awesome templates :~

• yummy lolly 
• deluxe templates 

Know all the facts before you judge!

This story is simple and does happened in real life:~

One old man was sitting with his 25 years old son in the train. Train is about to leave the station. All passengers are settling down their seat. As train started young man was filled with lot of joy and curiosity. He was sitting on the window side. He went out one hand and feeling the passing air. He shouted, "Papa see all trees are going behind". Old man smile and admired son feelings. Beside the young man one couple was sitting and listing all the conversion between father and son. They were little awkward the attitude of 25 years old man behaving like a small child.

Suddenly young man again shouted, "Papa see the pond and animals. Clouds are moving with train". Couple was watching the young man in embarrassingly. Now its start raining and some of water drops touches the young man's hand. He filled with joy and he closed the eyes. He shouted again," Papa it's raining, water is touching me, see papa". Couple couldn't help themselves and ask to old man. Why don't you visit the Doctor and get treated your son.
Old man said," Yes, We were coming from hospital only. Today only my son got the eyes first time in life".

Moral: "Don't draw conclusions until you know all the facts".

Peoples tend to make conclusion without knowing the whole story, leading other people to the wrong side of the whole truth and I realize that did the same mistake several times that end with bad consequences.

For example, last year I found out that my hubby used the money that supposed to be spend on our kitchen stuff without consenting me and instantly, I accused him using  the money to buy trivial stuff instead of asking him and we end up having a "cold war" for a day, only to find out that he used it to settle his old debt with his friend. You see, if only I ask him rather than accusing him then we won't get through that "cold war" after all..

The main key is don't feel ashamed to ask! Nobody will get mad with you if you ask question ( as long as the question is appropriate and suitable to the situation ). By asking, you will get the answer to ponder with before you make conclusion/judgment!

Please End Baby Exploitation & Trafficking!

Baby-for-sale? I know it's not a new issue yet it's still sound menacing and cruel to a mother like me. I surf the star online and this title caught my attention 1st ----> Baby-For-Sale Racket Crippled!

Sometimes I don't understand what kind of person those people who involved in this illegal activity. They are human being after all who gifted with heart to feel love and compassion toward those poor baby yet they are doing the cruelest thing without any remorse.  For God sake, they are just a baby who need protection, not a product to sell off to anybody!

Human trafficking especially baby trafficking is wrong and should never happened after all. For those who involved in trafficking/selling them off let me tell you all this:- Please examine your heart and humanity. If you live on other people misery especially those innocent babies you sold off, then misery will be your friend for eternity.

Congratulation to the local authorities for arresting those who involved in baby trafficking.. Keep up the good job!

For our government: Please stop your debate on trivial matter and focus on something much more important and wide problem such as human/baby exploitation and trafficking! ( we don't want Malaysia to be re-list in human trafficking blacklist as happened in year 2009 when the US government listed us in human trafficking blacklist!) So, forget the political view differences and work your mind together to solve this bigger issue!

Nuffnang Malaysia newbie (^_^) v

Hello Nuffnang Malaysia Community! Newbie here and please show me the way to $$$ !! just kidding but who I am kidding with right?..
I just registered with Nuffnang Malaysia like 1 hour ago and here I am bragging about it in my blog with twinkle in my eyes..

I know about this community since I created my blog site last year but I took time to join it because;  just say I was naive blogger before okay! I know most of my fellow follower and blog I followed used to this community because I visited their blog frequently and saw the Nuffnang ads there and there in their blog site.

Frankly, I don't really know how this community/site function but I guess it might as same as Google adsense where we can get payment if we do it the right way but I am hoping to know it better soon. Very soon indeed.

Guys and gals, feel free to advise me on how to use Nuffnang effectively.. I am looking forward to know your comment..

Morning therapy with my mom!

This morning I call  my mother to pour out my heart out about my 2nd son.. Last night I punished him because he lost his class timetable and exercise books.. Moreover, my eldest son complained to me that he always wandered alone back at school !

Sometimes my kids behavior especially my 2nd son always cause me headache and sometimes will turn me into "step-mom".. My mother said I need to use different way to approach each of my kids since they are different in characteristic and behavior and I guess she is right after all.. My mother said parenting done with softness is better than that with harshness because harshness only cause bitterness in kids character.. The bond between children and parent is much more strong if we use a softer approach to tackle their misbehavior.

Calling my mother really worth my phone bills because I  know I can  rely on her to advise me.. She is my top idol beside my father!I hope I can figure out my kids character and find the way to advise them in more effective way than punishing them to regret later..

Things To Always Remember

Whenever I feel down, depressed or even madly sad, I will surfed for inspirational stories, poems and even quotes that can help me to lift up my strength and spirit. It is kind of my habit to help me ease down my worrisome heart..

Your presence is a present to the world.
You are unique and one of a kind.
Your life can be what you want it to be.
Take the days just one at a time.

Count your blessings, not your troubles.
You will make it through whatever comes along.
Within you are so many answers.
Understand, have courage, be strong.

Do not put limits on yourself.
So many dreams are waiting to be realized.
Decisions are too important to leave to chance.
Reach for your peak, your goal and you prize.

Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
The longer one carries a problem the heavier it gets.
Do not take things too seriously.
Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.

Remember that a little love goes a long way.
Remember that a lot … goes forever.
Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
Life’s treasure are people together.

Realize that it is never too late.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Have hearth and hope and happiness.
Take the time to wish upon a start.

AND DO NOT EVER FORGET ….
FOR EVEN A DAY
HOW VERY SPECIAL YOU ARE !

I picked the poem above because it remind me to appreciate the existence of me in this world, to live life to the fullest, to dare myself of hoping and dreaming and to appreciate every single  thing that surrounded me.. In short words, it remind me to live, learn and love!