Kiddo Tantrum & Mommy worries

Woahh.. It's almost 3 days since my last update huh? The truth is I have so many thing I want to type down but I have no free time to do so since I am  busy with my overload task at office and  tagging along my hubby delivering order around Puchong and KL for the past 3 day.

Firstly regarding the Oreo Daddy Dunk Event that I said gonna attend. Guess what? We didn't manage to reach OU on time and missed the event! I was so damn sad and upset with my hubby because it was his fault that I missed the event! It was Father's Day on that day, so it's really mean of me if I explode right? So I just calm myself down and think positively. Moreover, it's not like my hubby did it on purpose. Well, some thing cannot always happened according to our plan. But, yes there is BUT because the story continuous and you have to wait my entry tonight..(*wink2)

My main content for today is about my youngest son who is showing his new side of tantrum that make me so damn worried and irritated at the same time. Since he turned to 2 year old, he always shouting and throwing things to his sibling and even to my hubby and me. Last Monday, he threw my other hand-phone and caused a bump on my daughter head. Before that he threw my hubby hand-phone ( luckily it survived) and before that he threw his food that make my hubby smacked his hand. He even tried to threw his bicycle toward his sister once! 

I asked his nanny how was he doing in her care and she told me that he was a good kid and have no problem taking care of him. So I am totally clueless on why he acted like that at home! My hubby said it's normal changes for a toddler of 2 years. Maybe it's true because I have read an article that said at 2 years a toddler became aware of what other people/bigger people can do and they became upset and throwing tantrum when they unable to accomplish those tasks.

I have asked my mother  and in law advice and both of them told me to stay calm and don't start panic because they said my youngest son is in a stage of learning a lot of new things that sometime made him upset when he couldn't do it right. They said all I need to do is to observe him so that he will not do something harmful to himself. I even bring him to see a pediatrician and they too said the same things.Well, both advice sound as same as the article I have read. 

My daughter also have bad temper but it only show when she was almost 4 years old but my youngest son already show them though he is only 2 years old. Right now I am trying the best to calm down and using a soothing words whenever he is angry and upset (as my mom and in law advised) to avoid any other consequence. However, I miss my smiling prince..(*sigh)

Happy moment with my prince of smiling

 So, mummies out there, have you ever face the same situation as mine? How do you cope with it? Please comment and share with me ok.. Ya, sa memang muka tembok kalau bab2 minta nasihat, hihihi.. You know, as Malay proverb proclaimed, ' MALU BERTANYA SESAT JALAN' so I have to ask if i don't know and right now I am truly lost.

That's all for now. Wait for my entry about what exactly happened on last Sunday. Adios! 

P/S: -  I took my 45min morning break to update my entry and stuffing FOOD in my hungry tummy (^_^)V

      

Happy Father's Day!

Father's day is special day to me even though my beloved father no longer around to answer my special phone call. 

 *FLASHBACK..

 Me : hello, mak honggo ih tapa? *hello, mum where is dad?

Mak : hilo soriba, momonsoi tv doh ulun. Nokuro daa? * Repairing people's TV downstairs. What's up?

Me : Lohowo daa mak. Haro boroson ko dau..* Can you call him for me? I want to talk to him.

Mak : ba, andadon toruhai.. * Okay, wait a moment.

Few minutes after...

Bapa: Hallo..Nuh rih Nung? Osibok oku noh tih.. * Hello, what's up Nung? I am really busy here.

Me : Selamat Hari Bapa!!!  * Happy Father's Day!

Bapa : Aii..Ai..Ai.. Na-agakku noh.. Okon monghuot doh no akaun, posuang doh tusin. Haha!

           *Ai,ai,ai .Just as I thought. You are not asking for my account number?

Me : Hihi..haro noh nokosuangku nga ingaa togumu.. * Hihi.. I already banked in but not much.

Bapa : Tei..ba, surou poh haro matu.. *It's okay, at least you did gave some.

Me : Bapa, osonong-sonong ko ih matu?  *Dad, are you okay there?

Bapa : Osonong-sonong ih tih ..  Om, poingkuro-kuro koh dika hino?  *I am fine. How about you?

Me : Osonong-sonong yagai tih.. Bla..bla..bla..bla..bla..bla.. *We are doing fine here..Bla..Bla..Bla..

Bapa : (listening intently while chipped here and then)

Me : Ba, monolipon oku kawagu kio bapa.. Nawi noh kredit tih telipon..*Okay dad, I'll call you again, I am run out of credit.

Bapa : Hahaha.. ba, poisikou kio Nung. *Hahaha, Okay and thanks Nung.

Me : Ish, Inga hal boi bapa. Poinsikou dika  ..(then I hung up)  * It's okay dad. Thanks to you instead

Frankly, I do feel the emptiness sometime and during those time I really wish I could talk to my father one last time, which is impossible especially when I am in problem. I envied those who have a father to rely on! Such a childish feeling isn't it..Now, during this special day, all I can do to express my gratitude and love to my deceased father is praying. He was gone forever but in my heart, his memory lives on.. I LOVE YOU DAD..

Image by Mr. Google

For those who still have a father and rarely express your gratitude and love to them, start doing it now as often as you can to avoid the feeling of guilt and regret when they are gone because believe me, it's really a haunting feeling. For those who have a  severed relationship with your father, start to mend the broken bridge because no matter what flaw and imperfection your father have, they are still your father. 

To daddies all over the world especially to my hubby and my father in law, HAPPY FATHER"S DAY!

He didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.

Oreo Daddy Dunk Event - I Am In!

Good day everyone!!! Last night I am bit whiny and glumly because of my "slimmer" purse but today I am back to the vibrant mother and wife again, with grin from ear to ear because my purse is refilled by hubby. Thanks to his rayban sunglasses (Gred AAA+) online business. Ahaks, menyelam sambil minum, blogging sambil promoting ba kan..(*wink2) 

Firstly, I am gonna post-phone again my intention to do the Brazilian Waxing to other date (unknown yet). My appointment with the wax boutique is on this coming Sunday but due to my "RED FLAG" condition, I have to cancel it.. Ehemm, paham2 saja la kio.. I am sad but what can I do to stop this nature of woman kan. I don't know when will I set another date since my work and home schedule is full until before Hari Raya Puasa, so for the time being I have to bear with Mr.Scissors and Mr.Shaver to do the tasks.=P

Secondly, I am gonna attend the Oreo Daddy Dunk event this coming Sunday!!!!!!! Since I cannot make it for the waxing appointment, so I decided to spend it with my hubby and kiddos instead. by attending Oreo daddy Dunk Event. Moreover this coming Sunday is Father's Day isn't it? Haiya, talking about Father's Day, I have not buy anything for my hubby yet. 

Last week I asked him,"ling, what do you want for this coming Father's Day?"

"Tak payah susah2.. It's enough to see you and the kiddos happy," he replied. That's what I love the most about my unromantic hubby. He put the kids and mine happiness above all. OPPSSS, I will save this for my Father's Day entry, so let's go back to the earlier point; OREO DADDY DUNK 2011 EVENT!

OREO DADDY DUNK 2011 EVENT

The even will take place at:- ONE UTAMA (OU) NEW WING, GROUND FLOOR MAIN ENTRANCE on: JUNE 19TH 2011 (SUNDAY) from 10AM -8PM. Yeppi, I might stumble upon some of the OTAI2 blogger there. (Excited tahap Gaban suda ni) Hopefully, hubby manage to get back the digital camera for better pics snapping but if not I will still satisfied with my Sony Erickson phone camera.. I better start to memorize those OTAI blogger face start from now..

Ba, boss's son is asking me to prepare the invoice  for customer so have to put full stop here.. 

SAYA SUKA DAMAI!

PEACE NO WAR!

It's Middle Of Month Yet I Am Already Broke!

I am an account/administration executive in my company and I did very well in my job but when comes to my own (personal not family) financial management, I think I am the worst!Why? Because I couldn't resist spending my money at KFC, McDonald, Food Stall, Restaurant etc concerned with food! Hahahaha, Gotcha! The title is just for fun but still a bit related to my entry content, so keep reading.. Muka tembok betul kan suruh2 orang terus membaca..

Normally I am a bit fussy in buying stuff especial if those stuffs are expensive. I compared prices before I purchase something and I am glad because I am not one of those who fanatic/like/love branded items. You know, branded items normally cost equal to my half month salary which I use to buy more item and to me that's really a wasteful! But that's just my opinion and it's differ from one person to another on how they spend their money.. People said, "Duit Aku, Suka Hati Aku la"

However, I never been fussy in spending my money over foods because I love to eat! Now I am broke, almost broke because since earlier month of June my hubby, my kids and I always dine out at this local restaurant called , which is located nearby our flat area (15min driving) that served a very delicious and affordable meal sets for family. Well, it's supposed to be affordable but imagined what happen if you dine out everyday with costs around RM25-RM40 per day? It's only for dinner not yet included my expenses over lunch and junk food! 

Last night I told my hubby,"Ling, our meal monthly budget over limit suda. Malam besok we cook la."

"Abis duit pasal makan takpe.. Weekend we cook okay," he replied nonchalantly. Haiya, like me, he too love foods.. That's why he got that bloated stomach! How I wish my purse is as bloated as his stomach, HAHAHAHA! If you read this hubby, please don't get mad with your darling wife kio.. (^_^)V

But to tell the truth, I face this problem every months and still survive! I don't mind spending money on foods because foods bring my family together. We all (my hubby, my kids and me) love foods and eating out together is one of our favorite time. Just see our happy faces in pics below (taken on 16/06/2011) while and after dinner:-

Even my youngest son enjoying his food!

Hubby and our princess - inseparable! Psst..Did you notice his stomach?

Peace Y'all!

My daughter whine,"Asyik2 ambil gambar! Nak makan pun tak boleh!"

Licin..!

As hubby said,"duit boleh dicari, perut yang lapar isi duluan.." So, I never regret spending money over foods because I know that we can always find honest way to earn money! At the same time I always told my kids to be grateful because they can eat nice food and never forget all of those unlucky people who live in poverty and never have the privilege they have. I hate people who waste food intentionally! Nah, mo start babbling suda ni so better I stop when I still coherent..Muahahaha..

Okay, I haven't wash my kiddo uniform yet and my hubby wanna use our PC,so I will leave you all with this pantun melayu that you might already know:-

GENDANG GENDUT TALI KECAPI,

KENYANG PERUT SENANG HATI!

P/S:-Sorry for the not so good quality of pics since it taken with my HP camera (2.0mp).

We Too Can be The Lovey-Dovey Couple

Who say my hubby and I cannot be the lovey-dovey couple? Yeah, we are like Tom and Jerry but it doesn't mean we always on way. Plus I am ANTI-WAR, remember..

My hubby and I rarely show our affection in front of people and for that people always misunderstood us. Once my hubby relatives said to me, "korang ni nama je dah kahwin tapi lagak macam berkawan." My replies,"tak biasa la manja-manja kat depan orang cik." That's the truth. Most couple unashamedly show  their affection publicly but for my hubby and me, that kind of affection is exclusively ours and we don't need to show or even to boast up about it in public. 

Not only we feel awkward to show our affection in public, we have the same feeling even during taking pictures together. "Peluk la suami ko tu!!","Alahai, kaku nyer!", "Rapat la sikit!" I am used to all of this kind order because it's always shouted to us when my hubby and I taking picture together. I just can't show the affection in front of other people because doing it just like baring out my secret to public. Gosh, it's feel so embarrassing! 

However, my hubby and I had solved the awkward feeling when taking pics together since now we have our very own personal photographer.. Can you guess who is he? Hahaha, who else but my eldest son. We don't have to feel shy in front of him because he is our son! Now we too can pose as the lovey-dovey couple like pics below taken by my son last Sunday:-

My eldest son name this pic as "Mama & Papa with 2 monkey" so I said to  him,"If they are monkey then you are monkey big bro"

Do we qualify to be the lovey-dovey couple now??

 

See, we too can pose as the lovey-dovey couple.. Okay, it's 12.20 am already. So, got to stop ranting now but before that I wanna say thank you for all those who give me an advise/tips about my sensitive/allergis problem. Garzie mille kio!

P/S:-Nice shot for a 9 years old kiddo right? 

Blister/Rashes Around My Lip - Advices/Tips Needed!!!

 I no longer can stand this anymore! Normally I rather suffer in silence but this time I don't care anymore because it's happening again and I don't think I can't stand the injection and medication anymore! I know I am whining like kids right now but have look on the picture (self-taken with HP Camera) below and you will understand why..

Redness around my lip - less obvious since I camouflage it with make-up

Yep, my upper and lower lip area is having this redness that feel so itchy and I couldn't scratch it since it will turn into watery blister. This never occurred to me, not until my sis in law asked me to tried this lip softener/moisturizer of Mary Kay product last February. Then it's happened and until now I regretted it. I already consulted a doctor and skin expert and they say that I must be allergic to this product and should avoid from using it. That's is the 1st and last time I will ever tried Mary Kay product but the problem  is once I stopped using the lotion (prescribed by doctor and only can get from hospital or clinic) this problem will occur again and that's really troublesome. I don't want to depend on this lotion for whole of my life! ARRGGGHHH!!! There goes my blogging mood..

If any of you out there have any advice or tips on how to solve or at least to reduce the redness and itchiness please do share with me. Seem like I have to stay indoor today and until this ugly redness subside ..(*sigh) 

A Box Of Kisses

Image by Mr. Google

Ehem... I have stare to the monitor for quite some times but couldn't find the right words to start my rant today since I am kind of free. I didn't realize that I have zoned out until my hand-phone rings. Oppps, hubby called to inform me that he will arrive in 20 minutes to fetch me out for lunch. Mean I only have 20 minutes to type down my rants! 

Okay, since today is Friday and last working day for this week, I thought (earlier) I am  not going to ruin anybody weekend mood by writing something teary-dreary. However, I don't have time to elaborate any idea that lingered in my mind so I decided just to share below motivational story, again from academictips.org

Some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree.

Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, “This is for you, Daddy.” He was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.

He yelled at her, “Don’t you know that when you give someone a present, there’s supposed to be something inside it?”

The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said,”Oh, Daddy, it is not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy.”

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.

It is told that the man kept that gold box by his bed for years and whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each of us as humans have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, friends, family and God. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold. Often enough, in our effort to achieve all of those temporary fame and wealth, we hurt our loves one feeling especially our kid, parent and even our sibling and only realize what they mean to us when it's too late.. I know the feeling of guilt and regret over neglecting/hurting the one who close to me.

So, treat your love one nicely so that you won't live with the same guilt and regret I feel and believe me that your life will much more meaningful. Spend time with your family, kid, parent or even your sibling because in the moment of difficulties they were the 1st person you will turn to for encouragement..

GEEEZZZZ.. Time's up! Need to fix my make-up because hubby will be here in any minutes.. Have a nice Friday and blasting weekend!

My Top 3 Choices - Websites/Blogs of Jokes & Funny Stories

I love jokes, I love funny stories and I admire all of those people who can tell / write funny stories and make a jokes. Some people said everyone can make a jokes but not everyone got the natural talent to do so and yep, I am one of those people who barely know how to make jokes or even telling / writing funny stories. Every times I try to re-tell funny stories to my kids or y husband or my friend, it's turn out to be a serious story and irritated the hell out of me when they end up saying, " where is the funny part?" (ARGGGGH!!!! )

Image Source: Mr Google

I am not going rants about my inability to make jokes or telling/writing funny story because I just want to share few link/website/blog where I feed myself with jokes/funny story that always took away my bad mood and make me smile or even laughing out loud. Actually there are many of them out there but I will only mention three of my favorites website/blog.

My top choice is Life Sketches Of Gunsirit because I simply like all of his funny story about this character called "Ongkor" but he got lots of other funny story with different characters and some of the funny stories was happened in his real life. I got to know about his blog from my blogger friend Beaty and the 1st jokes I read was Your Feet Go To Heaven First. Since then I put him on my blog-list to keep me updated to his entry so that I won't miss out any funny stories from him. He is brilliant to use character such as Ongkor, Yanak-anak, Kinomulok, Kitut etc to spice up his stories because to person like me who grow up with bedtime story about this character, it make me feel like they truly exist! 6 weeks ago, my hubby might asked, "why are you laughing like a madwoman?" if he saw me laughing in front of the computer monitor but now he too, will join me after he read one of Guns entry about ' Ongkor In Department Store '. Well, he is kind of gobsmacked and fall in love with this character called "Ongkor"! He even laughed louder than me and sometimes he will banging the table or tapping his head while reading jokes about Ongkor! Kuat ooo penangan si Ongkor kan..=P

My second choice is Reader Digest - Jokes ( actually it's my 1st choice before I got to know Guns website). I have know this website for quite some time and I even buy the book because other than funny stories/jokes, it also consist with lots of informative and good article. The jokes/funny stories was posted by reader all over the world so you can read various type of jokes. I even adapted its motto "Laugh Is The Best Medicine" in my life to cure my glum and moody day.

The third choice of mine is Jokes Blogger a blog who used Tumblr as platform. I followed this blog via my Tumblr account and keep updated with the latest entry from there. Some of the jokes /funny storiesmight sound sarcasm but still it can make me smile.

If music can heal your soul, well jokes and funny stories definitely can erase our moody day if we let it be. I always console my mood with jokes/funny stories because It the cheapest and fastest way, plus it's really work for me. However, people have different ways to tend or even mend their glumly mood and I am grateful that I can mend mine with the simplest way; by reading or hearing jokes or funny stories. How about watching comedy? Well that too but I leave it for future entry okay.

Gotta stop here. Need to inform  my hubby about the latest entry by guns and then go out to feed my hungry stomach.. My mood already sated now it's time for my stomach before it start rock & roll in there.. Have a nice day! (*wink)

P/S:- This is my personal appreciation to those who wrote a good jokes that helped me to tend my moody day. 

Back To Memory Lane:- Biodata

Yesterday, a friend of mine tagged my a pic of mine in Facebook that make me shout "Oh My God! Is that my handwriting?" loudly. I couldn't believe she still keep all of those bio-data after years. I couldn't even remember when did I wrote those bio-data..

My Biodata

I showed the pics to my hubby and guess what happened? He laughed on me! Between his laugh he manage to ask, "How old are you when you wrote those bio-data?" 

"For God sake, how could I remember. It's like ages ago!" I snapped to him, annoyed being his object of jokes yet me too couldn't help myself from laughing as well. Just look at the pics of my bio-data  then you will understand why my hubby laugh of me. It's so damn funny! It's good to be remind about this stuff actually..

Correction, my place of birth is not Hospital Daerah Ranau because according to my mom who know the fact very well, I was born in our home at Kampung Tudangan, Ranau. My mom said, she couldn't make it to the Hospital since there are no transportation and I just couldn't wait up to see the world =P that the delivery process was as easy as poo-pooing.

Yep, my hobby is still reading. I loves reading!

Ambition: Doctor or Scientist ? I could never be a doctor because I cannot stand the sight of blood. However, I almost become a scientist because I was a chemist before I change my career to another profession (accounting & administration) due to health issues.

Sweet memory? Of course my childhood years! I am not sure  why did I said getting a new friend as a sweet memory back then but maybe it's because I was a very shy girl back then and getting a new friend consider a sweet thing for a shy girl like me.

Bad memory? Lots of bad memory but I considered my ordeal in dealing with my beloved father death is the bad amongst all. BUT, being chased by this nasty dog of my neighborhood also one of my bad memory.I have lots of girlfriend and boyfriend but my best pals are Falinah, jarinah, Linda, Betsy, Eyrah, Puspawaty, Ganda, Giwin, Jaskson etc and most of them are my classmates.

THANK YOU still a sweet word for me but I will say "I LOVE YOU MOMMY" is the sweetest of all and I hate the words " WAR" and "VIOLENCE".

Actually looking back to this bio-data makes me realize how naive and foolish I was  back then. It also remind me that we can only planned our future but in the end God is the one who decide our destination. 

Have you ever stumble upon your old notes, bio-data etc? How do you feel about it? Come on, don't be shy, share it to us!

Okay, now you can laugh as much as you can. I won't get mad because laugh is the best medicine!

My pillow and blanket is missing me so gonna stop now and drifted to lala land with them. Good night and remember PEACE NO WAR! (^_^) v 

P/S: I wonder whether kids nowadays still did this kind of activities, you know asking their friend to fill their bio-data book.. 

Whore In Bed?

Image by Mr. Google

Good day readers! Just now I browsed through the net and after reading few article about this VERY HOT TOPIC about a group of Malaysian women launching this "obedient wife club" who urges its member to be "whore in bed" and obey their husband to prevent social ills such as divorce and domestic violence, I can feel this fingers of mine itching to tap on the keyboard and type down my own opinion about this topic. I don't have to provide you the link of this hot topic since you can just copy paste it to your browser & puff, you will see lots of search result over this topic. It's caused an uproar and havoc amongst women! ( I am one of those who feel angry over this deprived suggestion)

Okay, 1st of all, my personal impression; those women should examine their head for thinking such ridiculous solution and they should feel ashamed for degrading a women status, wife especially as low as a "whore". If anybody called me by those horrible word, they will definitely have my hands mark on their cheek, even if those people is my hubby. 

When I think about this club suggestion, I feel like I want to strangle the leader of this club for ever voice out this shameful idea. Yep, according to Islamic law, wife's number 1 priority is her husband (though I put my kids as my priority) but as a wife, we have a right and pride  that a husband should respect. What kind of respect does it reflected when a husband ask his wife to "perform" like a WHORE? Come on, obedience have nothing to do with the way you "treat" husband in bedroom. Moreover, there are no guarantee that a woman can keep her husband from straying away by acting as submissive as a whore and women are more likely being take for granted for doing so. 

Maybe they are just using the word as a metaphor but still the word in humiliating and inappropriate. Maybe what they really mean is as a wife, we should treat our husband "nicely & skillfully" in bedroom.  If they used the term of  "LOVER" rather then "WHORE" maybe people especially a wife like me feel less disgusted with the suggestion. Hmm, Dr.Rohaya, next time please mind your word okay!

However, we are no longer live in a caveman days where the man just pulls the women hair, take her to the caves and have his way because back then woman only regarded as sex toys and breeding media but this is 21 century where women contributes lots more than just being a toy sex and breeding media so there were no word such submission. 

What I think of this club? I am too shy and too "wise" to join this kind of club and there is NO WAY I am ever gonna join this club since I am too self-conscious to mark myself "Obedient wife" when I always have this cold shoulder war with my hubby especially when it's concerned with our leisure time; his-aquarium while mine-books & movies! Well you know, like Tom & Jerry relationship.

My god, I think I rambled out of topic already! Well, my main point is:-

1. Never ever referred wife as a WHORE even if  you don't meant it and how kind is your intention because there are vast difference between a wife and a whore. A wife is a respectful title but a whore is title of tramp!
2. Don't just saddle the burden of marriage onto one shoulder.It takes two to make a marriage work. Both the husband and wife should be good to each other. That is how thing wok well.  

P/S:- 

- Anybody who feel like a goody shoes obedient wife, please do not hesitate to join this club with shallow mind leader ( please note the sarcasms tone) ..hihihi, PEACE NO WAR (^_^) V