Happy New Year 2012!

This is scheduled post and right now I am here in Semenyih with my husband family celebrating New Year 2012. Well, it's not really a celebration because we are only gathering at MIL house and having BBQ on the count down of new year 2012.

Frankly, I am kind of blank when I typing this post and the only idea I am thinking of is what is my new year resolution. I am going to check back my 2011 resolution list in order to make a new one though (*laughing). I think some of my 2011 resolution have to bring forward again.... That's so very me! hahahahaha...

So, I am taking this opportunity to wish people all over the world, especially my families and friends a very Happy New Year 2012. May 365 new days ahead us will fill with happiness and bless and may this New Year will spread the power of LOVE and bring peace and harmony all over the world!

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HAPPY NEW YEAR 2012

Eating Habit & Flabby Tummy

It's been 3 days in a row I started doing this intensive tummy/abs workout... Hubby is LOL as i writing this entry.. (*sighing).. Why need to do intensive tummy/abs workout? Well, I have a thin body BUT my abs or better I say tummy have this excessive fat cell which look so ugly and unbalance for my thin frame and I think I need to get rid of it...Who say thin people don't have flabby tummy? I have and that's why I need this intensive workout for my tummy since I do jog & exercise regularly.. I blamed my so abnormal eating habits though.. (*sighing again)

Diet?? No way! I love foods so much and I won't stop from eating my favorite foods just to get a flat tummy. I rather do intensive workout/exercise than starving myself.. But I already stopped my habit of taking heavy foods 1 hour before bedtime and change it to fruits instead. Yeah, I am a person who eat every 2 or 3 hours because I always feel hungry and I love to eat heavy foods and junk foods.. I am a petite woman with a huge appetite.(noted the HUGE word) I always hope that those fat rich foods I consumed can make my butt bigger or my leg & thigh more muscle but seem like it turn my tummy into flabby one..Silly me..LOL.. 

Changing my eating habits is seem impossible because I am always hungry! I can't  sleep when my stomach is empty and singing for food.. That's why I always make sure junk foods is available in my home so that I won't trouble hubby to wake up 3am in the morning just to buy foods for me though sometime I did wake him up especially when I crave McDonald Big Mac burger..(^_^) V.. Now, serve me right for having a flabby tummy...(mentally slapping my forehead)..

Eating habits is very important aspect that you must keep on tabs.. Lots of article stated that not only it is one of aspect that we must control if we want to have an excellent health and also a nice figure.. No matter how hard you exercising if you ignore this one very simple fact than you will not gain any improvement.. Well, I should keep that one in my mind.. For foods lover like me, this fact seem like a hindrance..

I am not figure obsessive because it's never a problem for me before since fat cells seem hate me very much but now seem like those fat cells love my tummy very much and started to make my tummy as their favorite pit-stop..LOL.. Imagine this; thin hands, arms, legs, thighs & flat butt but a very flabby stomach...Fugly & imbalance isn't it? That's why I need to workout my abs a little bit..Cheer -up for me okay!..(*winking)

My tummy is singing for another fill up though I just have my lunch like 2 hours ago! Wish you all a very Happy Sunday & Happy Maal Hijrah! Ciao.... 

Twilight : Breaking Dawn (Part 1)

Last night I watched Twilight: Breaking Dawn (part1) and guess what I am gonna say about this movie??! It's awesome! Best adaptation of the book itself so far.. 

When I watched the 1st adaptation of the Twilight saga  which aired on 2008, I was kinda upset because the storyline was entirely changed from the original story but still I anticipate the next movie and I don't really know why though..LOL.. Maybe because I have all the book in my collection..(*winking)

I like the intro scene where Jacob got upset after getting the wedding invitation.. Heck, what I am kidding?! I like the whole movie! I wish they didn't cut some of the scene especially the scene where Edward extracted their baby from Bella womb! At one moment I saw Bella spine twisted and blood vessel and then Edward with bloody on his mouth, hands and shirts.. If only I haven't read the book like thousand time, I might have no idea of what really happened in this movie... Such bugger! Killjoy! I wish I could watch the uncut version of this movie..

The movie also pictured the very pregnant and sick Bella amazingly.. I can't imagine how horrible Bella condition until I watched this movie. 5 THUMBS UP, for the make-up artist! Did I give the praise to the right person/crew?? Better I say, congrats to all of the crew instead huh..(*laughing).. I also happened to love Bella wedding dress because it's simple yet sexy & elegant! I think Bella wedding dress is better than Kate Middleton wedding dress.. Kate's die hard fan, please don't hate me okay...(^_^)V

Talking about this gonna take me forever if you allow me..LOL.. But, I want you all to figure it out yourself since I don't want to give detail to those who have not watch it yet that means cheating..LOL...Moreover, my opinion is just a tiny dot from countless opinion about this movie...Go to the nearby cinema and watch it and then do share out your opinion.. To all of you who watched it already, come on and share your thought with us.. Right now I already looking forward to watch the next part of this movie..Okay, one more thing, I love the soundtrack of this movie which sang by Bruno Mars..

Happy Friday & Happy Weekend in advance!

P/S: Gonna ask my oversea friend whether they can get the uncut copy of this movie.. (^_^) V and please enjoy the song...

 

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Words-Filled Wednesday

Hello everyone..

Today is suppose is a Wordless Wednesday entry but since I haven't write a words since last week and I miss writing my mind out here, so NO entry for WW this week unless I change my mind later..(*winking)

So, what was up for the past 7 days in my life? Honestly, nothing interesting..(LOL).. Everything is same as usual except that I have so much in my mind! Normal though because I am just a normal woman..(*laughing)..But, yep there is always but.. We did managed to find suitable, reliable and affordable kindergarten for our princess. We decided to send her to her eldest brother former kindergarten (Tadika Alam Indah) because the we know the headmistress (Mrs.Chin) and the teacher (Ms. Kumala) well and we know that their teaching/learning methods work very well. Plus, the registration fee is cheaper from other kindergarten and we can pay it twice. Such a convenience for a average earning parent like us. How much? well, the registration fee is RM500 and the monthly fee is RM95.. The other kindergarten registration fee and monthly fee make me feel like choking, that's why we choose Mrs.Chin's Kindergarten and I am not going to regret it because I know this kindergarten can give my daughter a proper early education.. If you wonder whether it is one of the smart reader kids franchise than the answer is NOPE but it a good kindergarten for sure.

See, I have a lots to say though.. Wanna say more but I will save it for later because I know you all started to yawn already with this boring story...(*laughing).. Before I go, to all parents who have kids age 7 - 11 years old, don't forget to collect your RM100 per kid at their school okay!(LOL).. 

Okay, see you all in next entry..HAPPY WEDNESDAY & HAPPY WORKING!!!

Kindergarten Hunting Mood!

November is welcoming us in 3 more days and then another 30 days, December say hello again, signalling the upcoming new year.. See, how fast time passed by and as always since my kiddos start attending school, November and December gonna be month with careful expenditure for me because during this 2 month I am gonna use lots of $$$ for their uniform, book, fee etc. 

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Next year my daughter is attending kindergarten and here in big city, early education is not as cheap as you think unless you send them to KEMAS or pre-school. Hubby and I prefer sending our kids to private kindergarten for their early education because private kindergarten offer better option of early education which is really important to prepare them to face the much tougher subject and surrounding in primary school. We knew this  because we saw the difference of kids performance that attending private kindergarten and government kindergarten. How come? My eldest son attended private kindergarten and he can read both Malay and English books at 6 years old but our 2nd son which attended KEMAS (during our hard time) still can't read very well even after he graduated from those KEMAS! Luckily he is a brilliant kid and now he can read though not as good as his big brother.I am not saying those kindergarten is not good because some kids who attended it still excelled very well but maybe it was just my little boy who didn't pay attention at class...

Hubby and I will start our hunt for a good and affordable kindergarten for our beloved princess next week. So, not yet hunting but will be and hopefully can find one before December.. Oppps! Today is Friday and I am not suppose to spoil your Friday mood with this worries of mine.. I have lot of them recently... 

Okay, gotta go and find something to turn on the happy mood...Happy Working, Happy Friday & Happy Weekend!

Auditor-General's Report: RM3.73bil Overspent!

Yes, last night I spent my insomnia time reading the article about Auditor-general's Report and one article  about "Nine Minister or Depts Overspent By RM3.73bil" really caught my attention and wanna have my say over this overspent money since me too tax payer and as far as I knew they got those fund from our tax. 

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RM3.73bil???!!!! That's really a HUGE amount! If we divide those overspent money to Malaysia population which is approximately around 28M to 29M, everyone in Malaysia can be a millionaire and there will still around RM3.7bil to develop our country. But that's just a fairytale wishes since our leader will never think like that. If you read the link that I attached below about this overspent, you too will feel suspicious. Can you imagine how can they paid RM56k for a night vision binocular which price is only around RM2k to RM3k?! This finding make me wonder how terribly 'stupid' those people who handle the purchase of this item because even my 9 years old son knew it is irrational price..Sorry , sound harsh but that's exactly how I think of those people... Its also make me think that corruption might be involved all the way.. Wait until you read about the RM260m overspent by Ministry of Tourism on ads and also the purchased of 23 horses worth RM5.66m by the National Sports Institute.. Revelation like this really make me, a tax payer feel being robbed because the money I paid was not been used wisely but being wasted over something unnecessary instead! As for the excuses by MOE, to me it might acceptable since I don't mind spending more over education as long as they really spent the money on education development purpose!

It's true that we might never know the validity of AG's report but they won't come out with such report if it's not happening. I may not an expert, not even a person of wisdom and people might think that I have those qualification to give my say over this report but to me as a tax payer, who contribute to fund all of those government spending, I think I have the right to say something over this matter. And I say the RM3.73bil overspent really ridiculous and something should be done to avoid such waste as well as preventing our country to bear the burden of debt because of corruption that might involved.

Read below articles for yourself and be welcome to express your opinion.. 

Dept paid RM11,800 for RM3,400 laptop and printer

Animals purchased by sports institute did not compete in championship

Auditor-General: Tourism Ministry overpaid RM270m for ads

Ministries and agencies to explain funds management

Want more articles/news? Haiya, just google it up okay and you'll find more!

Well, times up for me here. Need to go back to my invoices. So, Happy Tuesday & Happy Deepavali in advance to all Malaysian who celebrates this festival especially Hindu people..

P/S: This is solely my opinion and no political intention here but just my point of view over the AG's report.. I am a neutral when it concern with political view which mean I am speaking only for myself not for anyone else.. PEACE NO WAR! (^_^) V

Pink Ribbon Month & Me

Bonjour! Comment êtes-vous? 

I think it's not too late for me to say "Happy Pink Month" to all women in whole world especially to my fellow blogger friend! I don't need to explain more since you can google it up and find thousand articles about this month of breast cancer awareness. 

Image credited to hoohaa.my

So ladies, have you done the BSE ( Breast Self-Examination)? Well, I have to thank my dear blogger friend, Just because her recent post remind me of it.So, if you have not yet perform it at home, hurray-up do it soon. If you don't know how to do it, check out this link---->BSE 

Some women might say, what for? It's not like it can save us from death. Yes, it will not but at least we can detect any early symptom that might give us more chance to be curable than doing nothing at all. Moreover it show that we are responsible of our own body and health. I really am not keen with people who surrender before fighting. I always adore those women who suffered with breast cancer that keep fighting and never lost hope till the very end though it seem like they were in loose end. We have a lot to learn from them; their courage, their determination and their will to survive..Those women really are amazing!

This year, the Pink Ribbon Day fall on 24th October (next monday) so show your support ladies! Those who want to donate, you can go to breastcancer.org and make your donation. Pssttt, I donateD all my not much earning from surveyhead to Susan G. Komen Organization, one of organization that actively involved in Breast Cancer campaign though I did wish I donate it to local organization instead..Ya, it's not much but at least I did my part..

Boss is here, so gotta go! Happy Tuesday Everyone!

Happy 31th Birthday Hubby!

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Yep, today is hubby birthday and as mine he doesn't want to have any special celebration. Keep praying for me so that I can be a better man, he said that. I don't buy anything special for hubby so I decided to write a special post about him so that people will understand why I stay by his side.

He is come from a very different kind of background than mine. His parent divorced since he was just a toddler and remarried again. Hubby been through a very harsh and sad childhood. His siblings and him was raised by his father and stepmother because his mother (MIL) couldn't afford to support them back then. He said they were treated kindly at first but everything changed after their stepmother have her own kids. He said he became spiteful and headstrong because of his childhood experience.

When I got to know him 10 years ago, he was still in devastated state because being dumped by his Filipino girlfriend. He was jobless and have to quit from continuing his study at FIT (Federal Institute Of Technology). If I think back, his life story also one of the reason why become closer to him. I feel sorry for him because he have that kind of background. 

I knew he was not ready to marry anyone when he said he will took the responsibility of me 10 years ago but still he did marry me. He can just leave me because I doubt that we were really in love back then yet he stayed. His family especially his father said that he can never be a good person and for that I feel so bad for him. He adore my father more than his own father though he only talked with him via phone call and never meet him in person. When I asked why? He said, I long for a father who can advise me through my good and bad time, who still proud of me though I made a mistake and who will never look down at me. I envy you because you have one..

Being a mere human being, he has many flaw but he is a very good father to my children and a good husband as well. Our marriage is not based on fairytale love story but we learned to love each other and as time passed by, our love grew stronger and stronger. Too many obstacle crossed our relationship but we managed to overcome it and here we are still together despite of some people prediction.. Life is so unpredictable..

Talking about him and us gonna take me forever so let me just concluded it here. I stay by his side because now I love him, because he is a great father to my kids and also because of his courage/responsibility in life.. What more can I ask when I have this kind of man in my life?

To my dearest hubby, on this special day of you, I wanna wish you a very happy birthday. May everything you dream of will come true..I love you!

To all my blogger friend, Happy Friday and Happy Weekend in advance!

P/S: Once in a while jadi jiwang, buli ba kan...(*wink2)

Happy Moon Cake/Mid-Autumn Festival 2011!

Nomm..Nomm..Nomm..
Yep, I am gonna have lots of moon cake today and that's mean my mouth won't stop chewing, nope not until I have enough of them.. It's a delicacy that I won't miss every year because it's so yummy..There various type of moon cake but I love them all as long as it's free from pork or any forbidden ingredients..

I don't celebrate this festival but it doesn't mean I don't enjoying myself during this festival especially it's come with delicacy such as moon cake. I guess lots of people out there enjoying this festival too, right? Frankly and sincerely I am really proud that I was born as Malaysian and live in Malaysia who have a colorful culture and festival. Ya, we Malaysian don't have to travel far away to China just to feel and enjoy the Festival of Moon Cake since we too have all of that here in Malaysia, aren't we??

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 It's seem like today gonna be a wonderful working day after all..(*wink2).. I just love makan2 time! Okay, time to resume eating.. Happy Monday, Happy working & Happy Moon Cake Festival!

I Am Still Here!

ASSALAMUALAIKUM and HELLO everyone!

Yeah, I am still here in blogging world though for the past few weeks my appearance is like Chipsmore.. You know, "now you see, now you don't!"..LOL.. 

Although I don't have enough time to post my miles long entry, I still have time blog-hopping to read your entry and keep up to date about the my blogger friend.. 

1st of all, CONGRATS to Stella for her new addition in family and welcome to club of motherhood! Her baby is so cute that I feel like I want another baby..Ngehehehe!

I really adore newborn babies! Just looking at their innocent face  make my heart, mind & soul calm.. Sometimes I wonder why people who doesn't like babies exist. Well, you know people who dump their baby and people who hurt their baby...

2ndly, I want to inform you all about my intention to write about my past. If you all noticed, I always mention that I have done mistakes in the past. Mistake that change my life 360 degree. I am doing this not to re-live my past, not even to attract people attention, but I am doing this as a responsibility toward our future generation so that they will not repeat the same mistakes I have done. As Malay proverb " Yang Baik Jadikan Tauladan, Yang Jahat Jadikan Sempadan". 

Some people might said it's like "membuka pekung di dada" but to me it's just me sharing the truth about my past mistake. No use to hide the truth when we know that sooner or later people will found out eventually.

I guess, that's all I want to let you all know for now.. So, one thing for sure is I am always be here in blogging world, either as a loyal reader or blogger, so don't forget my existence..Hahahahaha!

Happy Working & Happy Friday everyone!

Wordless Wednesday #7

You Better Watch Out "Kaki Kipas"!

Yep, that is the warning I am going to tell to this particular person. If you want to ask me whether this person is my co-worker then my answer is NO but she is co-worker of my husband who happened to live in same flat building as us. 

Actually from the very beginning since my hubby told me about this new girl that going to work with him (July last year), I already have this uneasy feeling about her. She is a widow and only have a daughter but the daughter live with her ex-husband. But that not the reason why I feel uneasy with her more likely because nobody want to hire her after she 'quit' from her former work, plus the macik2 at my flat area told me that she is wild girl and that's why her husband divorced her.

During that time, my hubby said "biar la, kesian". But after few month working with her my hubby started to complain about her. he said she always act like she busy with work whenever their boss is around when the truth is she keep doing the same thing from morning till evening and then doing OT some more! Pendek kata sudah tunjuk belang la..

How can I said my hubby is telling the truth? Because his boss is a friend of my boss and whenever he come to my office he will talk about this and that goodness of that girl though in reality the girl don't know anything. She can't even interpret simple drawing and a simple stuff. She work in quality control dept under my husband supervision and my company happened to be their supplier for certain material. So, I know the her incompetence..  

My hubby said that whenever she think that my hubby is not watching, she will busy surfing the net and to cover her track, she put 1 stuff/task on her desk, so that whenever boss come in, she can act like she is checking the stuff.. Her daily routine at office is acting doing nothing in the morning except acting and kipasing the boss then  buat2 busy in the evening so that she can do OT.. Pandai betul kan ni perempuan..

She will do anything except 'working'

Hubby's boss 'sayang' this girl because she always 'kipas/ampu/FLATTERER' his boss with thousand lies. Tonight, my hubby said his boss want the girl memorize the KANJI (Japanese words) because this girl said she is learning Japanese language.. BLUEEEKKKK!!! I feel like want to vomit to her face! Ayoo, English pun ko x reti, ni kan nak belajar Jepun.. Udah2 le mengipas kang kipas ko koyak, pecah tembelang ko.. Memang boleh menang award ko ni!

I told my hubby to sound her but being my hubby who happen to have a soft heart towards woman/girl, he just keep all the hard feeling in his heart and then pour it out to me once at home..Serve you right for being a good listener, I said to myself and mentally slap myself..

I am lucky because I am not in his place because I know exactly what will happen if I am in his place.. Memang kena terus tu perempuan.. Why I am so angry? Saya benci orang yg tidak jujur semasa berkerja dan suka mengampu untuk berjaya. 

Hubby feel down to continue working there because his boss always try to find his fault due to this girl bad mouth. My hubby really good in his work and I am saying this not because  he is my hubby but because lots of people who are wise enough to differ between a good worker and a good flatterer say so. 

Well, I am done pouring out my 'lava'. Thanks for lending me your attention/ear/eye kio.. As for my hubby, I hope he can find the courage and spirit to stand still and as for the goody two shoe girl, I hope she will realize that sooner or later her lies will come out and trap herself.

What about you people? Have you ever been encounter a person so-called KAKI KIPAS?? Leav eyou with this cepumas question and don't forget to comment..comment..and comment..( Ishh..Ishh.Ishh. Marah2 pun sempat lagi mo suruh komen)

Au Revoir!
(All Image credited to The handsome Mr. Google) 

My Blog, My Pleasure!

I joined blogging world not because of following the trend but because I like to blog about my life and things happened around me. Blogging help me to express myself through my writing since I am not really a talkative one in person. Yep, in reality, in person I am truly a shy and quiet woman. I talk only when I need to and most of time I just listen to people talking out their opinion. But don't take my shyness and quietness for grant because if people challenged me to the limit, I will surely explode and like a volcano with it deadly lava, you may expect "deadly" words came out from me..

Why all of sudden, I write about this? Well, you see few days ago a person named 'melayu' leave a "message" on my shout-box that criticized my writing in English ( refer to image or you may find it yourself at my shout-box).. At 1st I think "Never Mind" but then after sometime I have this thought " What the heck! this is my blog, so it's up to me to write in English or in any language I want to."

I never and will never force people to read my blog! If you like my writing and my sharing, you are most welcome to come and visit, but if you don't like or maybe you don't like my English entry, feel free to skip my blog and go to thousand other blog that might write in language you prefer. FYI, this is my blog and everything I write here is exclusively for my own pleasure and for those who enjoy reading it! If my entry does not suit you, then shoo..shoo.shoo.. 

You people have your right to say anything about my blog but please do it in a ethically way. Remember that your word can hurt other if you don't watch the way you say it. Or at least, it might cause unwanted humiliation though you might not intend it to be that way. People will respect you more if you use a proper/polite words instead of rude one. For examples, instead of saying the above, maybe you can say it like this " Boleh tak buat entri dalam bahasa melayu pula. Jangan la asyik bahasa English je." Isn't it sound better and persuading??

To "melayu":-

Since when did writing in English considered as "berlagak"? Aiyo!! Sempit betul fikiran ko ni.. What century do you live?? If you dislike my entry so much then why you keep clicking my link? Well, I don't want to waste my time and peace of mind with narrow-minded like you, so THANK YOU very much for you 'positive' critic! From now on, main jauh2 dari blog saya ye..

For you my beloved reader/follower, MILLION THANK YOU for reading my boring entries in this blog  and leaving comment as well.. And ya, what do you feel if this happened to you? C'mon, don't shy2..share2 ba kita..

Okay, enough pouring out my hearth-ache.. Time to continue my filing task..GOOD DAY and PEACE NO WAR (^_^) V.

Phewww..now I feel better..(*wink2)

P/S: Yesterday, for the whole day I keep thinking why on heaven people would leave such message, But now I don't  care anymore.

Blog Title - To Be Change In Near Future

When I first joined/switched to blogger a year ago, my blog title was "Never Ending Story" than I changed it to "Life Through My Window" because I thought the previous title is unsuitable since every story did have an ending aren't it?

Image by Mr. Google

I am still stick to "Life Through My Window" right now but I started to re-thinking of changing it again to something simpler and easy to remember. We all know the importance of blog title because it is the 1st impression that might attract people to read your blog content. Plus, I still remember one of my blogger friend said that my recent blog title sound like a "stalker". Frankly, I thought the title was okay because I did write everything according to my point view and the title was a metaphor of  that aspect..Ehemm, at least in my opinion because it depend on people interpretation of it. However, being me I definitely know from the very beginning that I am  going to change it in future. So, this time I want to find the final and ultimate title, meaning no more changing..Hopefully (*sigh)

So far I been looking around at my blogger friend blog title and found out that I really want my blog title to be as simple as "The Oranje" , "Just's Corner" , "The OkayArms" and many more but I am not going to enlist it here since it will take forever. I am mess when it come to simple thing because I do love extreme stuff! (^_^)V

I don't think I need to make announcement once I change my Blog title because the change is automate and you will surely know about it. Well, I am done pouring out what's bothering me this morning so until next entry, ciao!

Disappointment To Happy Time With Family!

Phewww.. I am tired but since my finger still have the energy to tapping on my keyboard, I am gonna ranting for a while before I go off to dream land..(*wink2)

So as I promised, this entry is about what happened on last Sunday from A to Z, so grip yourself, take a deep breathe and get ready for my miles long entry =P. Just joking! 

Last Sunday, as always I woke up at 7.30am because my eldest son have a football training at 8.00 am. My hubby still sleeping because he stayed up until dawn, doing his advertising at Mudah.com, Ebay and updating  his blog-shop but he promised to wake up before 1.30pm to help me with the house-core and then attending the Oreo Daddy Dunk Event. Well guess what? He overslept! He only woke up at 2.30pm after I sprinkle LOTS of water to him! ( served him right!). 

I thought we could go off to One Utama Mall right after hubby have his lunch but then a call from a customer, requesting him to do C.O.D to Kota Kemuning, Shah Alam altered my plan again. I was already fuming up since I really want to attend that event but since my hubby don't want to lose any customer and more customer mean more money, we decided to do the C.O.D and then go straight to that event.

It's took us 25 hours to pick up the Goods from our supplier at Putra Perdana, 1 and half hour driving to kota Kemuning and then another 1 and half hour rushing to One Utama Mall. We reached One Utama mall around 7.35pm, too late to attend the event! 

"Don't mad. Mungkin takde rezeki," hubby try to comfort me when he saw my sulking face.

"I am not mad. I am just upset. You know how excited I am with this aren't you?" I replied.

"Maybe we should leave then," hubby suggested when he saw my mood was not getting better. I feel a bit guilty and ashamed for acting like a kid. It was Father's day and I should expressed my gratitude to him for being such a wonderful father to our kids instead of behaving like a kids. My attitude reminded me of my daughter.. Mak borek, anak rintik. =D

"Nope. We're going to explore One Utama! First thing first; MAKAN, " I said to hubby with smiley face which make my kids shouted "HORRAY!" and drew people attention to us. Who said I can't be the considerate wife? Well, we ate then we walks around One Utama mall until our feet ached, only then we went  back home.

HAHAHA, you see nothing BIG really happened. It's just my disappointment turn into happy time for my hubby, my kids and me! Macam si guns cakap, next time ada peluang juga ba kan..

Okay, bed time! Jadi cuci mata with our pics took on that day kio though not much pics was snapped on that day since we are too shy to pose in crowded place.

1st meal: Rice with Penang Asam pedas Udang

"Kitty's smile" My daughter said..

2nd meal: Rice with Fried chicken with salted egg ~ sodap butul!

Nah, buli jadi model ka ni? Hahaha, teda harapan..

Hubby control hensem kunun..

Candid pic!

Hubby said wanna put this in his blog-shop.. Sori kio daling, sa putung trip dulu..hahaha

P/S:- hubby punya gambar sikit sebab dia jadi photographer terhormat that day! (^_^) V

Oreo Daddy Dunk Event - I Am In!

Good day everyone!!! Last night I am bit whiny and glumly because of my "slimmer" purse but today I am back to the vibrant mother and wife again, with grin from ear to ear because my purse is refilled by hubby. Thanks to his rayban sunglasses (Gred AAA+) online business. Ahaks, menyelam sambil minum, blogging sambil promoting ba kan..(*wink2) 

Firstly, I am gonna post-phone again my intention to do the Brazilian Waxing to other date (unknown yet). My appointment with the wax boutique is on this coming Sunday but due to my "RED FLAG" condition, I have to cancel it.. Ehemm, paham2 saja la kio.. I am sad but what can I do to stop this nature of woman kan. I don't know when will I set another date since my work and home schedule is full until before Hari Raya Puasa, so for the time being I have to bear with Mr.Scissors and Mr.Shaver to do the tasks.=P

Secondly, I am gonna attend the Oreo Daddy Dunk event this coming Sunday!!!!!!! Since I cannot make it for the waxing appointment, so I decided to spend it with my hubby and kiddos instead. by attending Oreo daddy Dunk Event. Moreover this coming Sunday is Father's Day isn't it? Haiya, talking about Father's Day, I have not buy anything for my hubby yet. 

Last week I asked him,"ling, what do you want for this coming Father's Day?"

"Tak payah susah2.. It's enough to see you and the kiddos happy," he replied. That's what I love the most about my unromantic hubby. He put the kids and mine happiness above all. OPPSSS, I will save this for my Father's Day entry, so let's go back to the earlier point; OREO DADDY DUNK 2011 EVENT!

OREO DADDY DUNK 2011 EVENT

The even will take place at:- ONE UTAMA (OU) NEW WING, GROUND FLOOR MAIN ENTRANCE on: JUNE 19TH 2011 (SUNDAY) from 10AM -8PM. Yeppi, I might stumble upon some of the OTAI2 blogger there. (Excited tahap Gaban suda ni) Hopefully, hubby manage to get back the digital camera for better pics snapping but if not I will still satisfied with my Sony Erickson phone camera.. I better start to memorize those OTAI blogger face start from now..

Ba, boss's son is asking me to prepare the invoice  for customer so have to put full stop here.. 

SAYA SUKA DAMAI!

PEACE NO WAR!

My Top 3 Choices - Websites/Blogs of Jokes & Funny Stories

I love jokes, I love funny stories and I admire all of those people who can tell / write funny stories and make a jokes. Some people said everyone can make a jokes but not everyone got the natural talent to do so and yep, I am one of those people who barely know how to make jokes or even telling / writing funny stories. Every times I try to re-tell funny stories to my kids or y husband or my friend, it's turn out to be a serious story and irritated the hell out of me when they end up saying, " where is the funny part?" (ARGGGGH!!!! )

Image Source: Mr Google

I am not going rants about my inability to make jokes or telling/writing funny story because I just want to share few link/website/blog where I feed myself with jokes/funny story that always took away my bad mood and make me smile or even laughing out loud. Actually there are many of them out there but I will only mention three of my favorites website/blog.

My top choice is Life Sketches Of Gunsirit because I simply like all of his funny story about this character called "Ongkor" but he got lots of other funny story with different characters and some of the funny stories was happened in his real life. I got to know about his blog from my blogger friend Beaty and the 1st jokes I read was Your Feet Go To Heaven First. Since then I put him on my blog-list to keep me updated to his entry so that I won't miss out any funny stories from him. He is brilliant to use character such as Ongkor, Yanak-anak, Kinomulok, Kitut etc to spice up his stories because to person like me who grow up with bedtime story about this character, it make me feel like they truly exist! 6 weeks ago, my hubby might asked, "why are you laughing like a madwoman?" if he saw me laughing in front of the computer monitor but now he too, will join me after he read one of Guns entry about ' Ongkor In Department Store '. Well, he is kind of gobsmacked and fall in love with this character called "Ongkor"! He even laughed louder than me and sometimes he will banging the table or tapping his head while reading jokes about Ongkor! Kuat ooo penangan si Ongkor kan..=P

My second choice is Reader Digest - Jokes ( actually it's my 1st choice before I got to know Guns website). I have know this website for quite some time and I even buy the book because other than funny stories/jokes, it also consist with lots of informative and good article. The jokes/funny stories was posted by reader all over the world so you can read various type of jokes. I even adapted its motto "Laugh Is The Best Medicine" in my life to cure my glum and moody day.

The third choice of mine is Jokes Blogger a blog who used Tumblr as platform. I followed this blog via my Tumblr account and keep updated with the latest entry from there. Some of the jokes /funny storiesmight sound sarcasm but still it can make me smile.

If music can heal your soul, well jokes and funny stories definitely can erase our moody day if we let it be. I always console my mood with jokes/funny stories because It the cheapest and fastest way, plus it's really work for me. However, people have different ways to tend or even mend their glumly mood and I am grateful that I can mend mine with the simplest way; by reading or hearing jokes or funny stories. How about watching comedy? Well that too but I leave it for future entry okay.

Gotta stop here. Need to inform  my hubby about the latest entry by guns and then go out to feed my hungry stomach.. My mood already sated now it's time for my stomach before it start rock & roll in there.. Have a nice day! (*wink)

P/S:- This is my personal appreciation to those who wrote a good jokes that helped me to tend my moody day. 

Temper Control

For today, I wanna share this motivation story for all those people who have problem in controlling their temper and hopefully after you read it you will find in your heart the strength to fight those temper from unleash.

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.”
You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there.
Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.

Article by : Academictips.org

Image From fiveareas.com

I have encountered lots of people with a bad temper, who said and did mean things and regret it later when the damage is done. Some of them hardly apologize for the damage they cause and go on with their life without thinking the consequence of their temper to the others. I have to admit that me too have those bad temper years ago, when I was younger, reckless and naive but over years I saw the damage of bad temper done to people emotionally and physically, I matured, wise up and thanks to almighty God I managed to control my temper, got rid all of those temper and replace it with understanding instead.

I don't have particular method how I did it. All I can remember is I just don't want to lose my temper after I witness an incident with horrible consequence of people losing control that terrified me. I cannot tell about the incident because it's not my right. My point here is, I forbid myself from losing my temper by thinking of the those incident and thinking of hurt that I might implicate to others by doing so. Losing control backfires all around - for the person and for those around you! Imagine that.

Not once but many times I was tempted to lose my temper especially among my husband family and relative who likes to look down on me and during negotiation with customer or supplier of my company but I reined it by doing the following:- 

1. Take a deep breathe
2. Think of the consequence to other
3. try to understand them by putting myself to their position - ask question such as why they keep pushing? what they feel if I snap to them and said this mean word? will they forgive me if I did so?
4. Remember that violence and hurt can't solve anything but bring more of it
5. think of my loves one - my kids smiling face, of course

It's not easy, but it's not as hard as well. Most important is your heart intention because everything comes from our sincere heart will turn out to be good result.

P/S:- Above is my personal tips on controlling my temper, it's not from expert advice or what so ever and feel free to suggest more ways! Peace No War!

Sorority Life Games & Me

Yep, I am Sorority Life active player and I am addicted to this games since I first registered with Facebook. That's 2 years ago and I am still loyal to this games though there are lots of games available there. I have tried playing all of those games but nothing can take away my loyalty to Sorority Life.

My profile in SL =P

Why I like to play this games? Actually I don't really have any particular reason but maybe it's all because I can buy and dress up "me" in that games with all the pretty/glamorous attire/clothing in this games, one thing that I couldn't afford in real world. During my childhood years, I used to play with my hand-made paper doll because my parent couldn't afford to buy doll, you know like barbie doll etc. You see it's seem like I want to appease the childhood dream of mine. Plus, I love all the fashion in this games! 

Will I keep on playing it? Yes, why not as long as it is free to play of course! 

Why not playing Farmville? I did played it but I quit because I feel so bored waiting the crops ripe for harvesting plus I know the hardness of being a farmer in real life and I don't think I want to experience it in virtual world too. Did I just whined? 

My hubby once said, " You are 29 years old for  god sake! Yet you play those games of a child"

"I don't see any age limit that prohibit me from playing it," I depended myself. I don't think I should stop playing games I enjoyed just because people think it's for kid. We can keep doing something we like as long as it not illegal and not interfering our other priority. Moreover, there always a "kid" n every single person..

I think sorority life games is better than games such as casino city (which might lure people to gamble), mafia wars and vampire wars (because I hate violence and war). Ya, I know that there are still fight element in sorority life but it all done with fashion competition (in virtual world).However, to me as long you enjoy playing it, you can keep playing it but just don't apply the action in real life okay!

Need to resume working now, so until next rants, have a nice day & enjoy you games of choice in FB or anywhere else. Peace No War! (^_^) v

Karyn Bosnak: the successful cyberbeggar

Have you ever heard of this? Maybe yes, maybe not and maybe you even think it's kind of staled tale but the "busy-body & big-mouth" woman in me still want to point out her personal opinion about this person. So ready yourself to read out my rambling. Okay, lets begin with brief introduction of Karyn Bosnak (Info source: wikipedia)

Source: bbc.co.uk

Karyn Bosnak, originally a television producer, raised in the U.S. state of Illinois, who has lived much of her adult life in the greater New York City area. Up until 2000, she had a relatively high-paying job, and wasn't really concerned about going into debt to feed her affection for buying designer-label products. However, when she was laid-off, her credit card debt of more than $20,000 started looming larger every month she was unable to find steady employment.Only then she created the her website named as savekaryn.com and became one of the notable " cyber begging ".
Savekaryn.com launched to request voluntary donation from the public. An early version of the site announced "WANTED: $20,000. CREDIT CARDS ARE BAD. Hello! My name is Karyn, I’m really nice and I’m asking for your help! You see, I have this huge credit card debt and I need $20,000 to pay it off. So if you have an extra buck or two, please send it my way... Together we can banish credit card debt from my life." Her request echoed the matter-of-fact style of her initial plea to the online community, which she had made using craigslist.org.

Bosnak was not the first individual to openly solicit voluntary donations via the Internet; documented examples go back at least as far as 1998. However, she was one of the first to have a clearly defined goal (rather than "I want money", she stated that she needed a specific amount to eliminate her credit card debt). She regularly updated the site with amounts received and progress made toward her goal. Once she had paid off her debts, as promised, she stopped accepting donations, and instead added links to other sites belonging to other people with specific needs.

Such a interesting story she have here aren't she? She manipulated people compassion and generosity with her blunt confession of bad credit card habit and most people think she is genius to think such way to settle her debt without even working. Nay, to me, I don't she is not that genius at all because "begging" for money cannot even fit the word genius! To me she is just as sly as thief for "robbing" out people mercy from those who need it the most (orphaned / bed-ridden / refugee / war victim etc.) yet I understand her motive on doing so. However, she is right about one thing that it's better if she asked for help from those who willing to help than doing something illegal to clear out her debt.

However, I think she is a very good blogger/writer! I read through her Original site & her current site and found out that her regular candid and often humorous writing. entertaining and inspirational. I already read her book and gave her 2 thumb-up! Nowadays she is not a cyber-beggar anymore but she more into persuading / urging people to donate to welfare organization such as UNICEF, animal haven, Oprah's Angel Network etc as a give back in return of people generosity in helping her.

To tell the truth I think I am a "cyber-beggar" too because I keep begging you people to read my "boring" post and keep asking you people to comment! Hahahaha! Okay, please do comment, comment and comment!