Kids come First

I think I ignored my blog this few days..This time not because I am busy with my beloved books but I am busy to improve my kids achievement in their academic. After being shocked with my eldest son  worst result in his recent test, my hubby and I investigated ( cewah, macam polis pula kan ) the real reason behind his poor achievement and in doing so, I spent less time on posting in my blog.

It's really hard to pull out the truth from my eldest son since he is too afraid to admit his mistake because he is scared of being caned by my hubby or worst he is scared I might hold his pocket money! However in the end he did admitted that he paid no attention in his class and played with his friend while his teacher teaching.. He complaint that he cannot play at home so that's why he played at school!

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To tell the truth, I was so damn mad with him at first because I put my highly hope in him since he is brilliant kid but at last I realized that as a mother, me too contributed to his failure. My mistake for pushing him too hard at home and gave him no chance to play but study all the time.. My hubby said, we shouldn't put too much burden on the shoulder of 9 years old boy!

For the past week, I was busy to re-arrange my kids schedule to make sure they can study but at the same time they have to play and entertain themselves.. I hope he will excel in his exam in her mid-term exam with this "learn & play" schedule to arrange for them.. No matter what, my kids come first above all ( except God ) even my hubby =P

Another updates, remembered the day when I told you all about my sis-in-law engagement day 2 weeks ago? Yes, the one where I was upset because certain people that put me in dilemma whether to attend or not. I did attended and I am gonna tell you people what I learned on that day because this special day of my sis-in-law is the 1st traditional Malay event I ever attend.. Maybe for some of you it's ancient thing but for me it's a new thing so I still wanna share about it.

So wait for my story okay! Bonne nuit everyone!